Working Mom's Powerful Essay Shows The Reality Of 'Having It All'
[2023-11-06 15:11:33]
Sarah Treem knows that being a working mother is the atmosphere of a real roller coaster and it is a tough decision
She became a fair aspect of work and life balance as the creator of the mother of two children under the age of 5 with The Golden Globe Award winning TV program "The Affair". However, Treem is a powerful article on Red Online, revealing a tough reality behind an attractive appearance.
"When I wrote this article, my 4-year-old son and my 10-month-old daughter were alone in my house, my daughter was infected with several viruses and it seems that she produced 90% of her Body, "she wrote
"My pretty pediatrician has seen it three times in the last ten days, but I do not have to worry, but I do not need to get up every 90 minutes to comfort an unpleasant baby," she pointed out. Since he and Treem are divorced, he is not at home, so his son woke up at night to find his father again.
Treem said that the success of her career makes her a typical representative of "having everything", but this is only a superficial view.
"I am too tired, I do not know what to do, I do not know how to cry, since no one wants to wake up, I enter the bathroom, open the water, lie down on the floor and curl toward the ball I cry, it is very attractive Treem photographed and wrote the second season of her pregnant show.
"You can say that I should see this.What are you thinking, trying to organize TV programs, support new marriage, and have two children?" I am wrong.
"But I do not think I want something different from a 35-year-old man in my place," she added. "Two children, a happy marriage, and a ferocious career? Is this funny to fight?"
Treem said her main regret was not asking for help as soon as possible, but when she finally decided to lend a hand she found an emotional support network.
"I feel that I need to prove what I can do because I am a woman, I do not want anyone to compromise," she wrote.
Treem advised colleagues and mothers. In addition to reminding them that travel is difficult, they should always ask for help She encourages women to be kind to themselves and not to be afraid of their own stories.
"Even if I do not move as I thought," she wrote. "Even if it feels like a failure, whatever happens, it is a story of your life, no one else can tell it."
I do not consider doing all these at the same time. According to this definition, a single mother "grows", but society does not target single mothers as women everywhere. No, no, this is what happens when you are poor and have no choice. In addition to the actual situation, encouraging women to work and give birth to children without changing other parts of the world where you live happens in all but very rich. No one says a woman (or a man about that), hey, do you know what is wonderful? I got up at 5 o'clock in the morning, took breakfast together, then put on clothes (high heels, nature), put the kids at the nursery school, went to work for 10 hours, brought back the children, cooked, cleaned up, the children were midnight I sleep until I sleep, so I will not be late for work. And tomorrow I will sleep another 5 hours.
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