You Are Not Your Accomplishments
[2023-07-10 11:03:19]
It is usually easy to measure performance. That is why it is very attractive to base them on who you are. Salary, title, GPA, university diploma, raise. They all have numbers or words or phrases that teach you how to see yourself
In a world where we are always irritated, we remind people of their accomplishments and a wonderful life. If we do not produce something, we are wasting time and it is difficult to judge whether your achievement will exceed it. Your achievement It is much easier to think yourself as a person valued at $ 60,000 a year, responsible for Global Something, or a person with a bachelor's degree in the Ivy League.
Those things are part of you. They are important to your identity. They are proud of you and make a significant contribution to your development.
You are not a company manager, a business school graduate, a successful artist, or a student of Summa Cum Laude
You are just a person. A person who succeeds in many things and fails many things. Have you fallen in love or are you still waiting for that situation to happen, you are not interested in romantic love at all. You met an incredible friend, and you lost someone else. You will be happy someday, others are not worth it. The next question is full of confidence and second, not secure. You are a loyal daughter, husband, friend, brother, prostitute, or girl, but there are also some mistakes. You have love, you have love, and at some point you did not give or accept it
You are very complicated. You change every day. You make mistakes every day, grow everyday, and spread your knowledge every day. You are constantly in development until you die
This is the beauty that you realize who you are. You are not your achievement, because they are only a part of you and are constantly changing like everyone else.
I am proud of your achievement. Let them burn more fire on your body. Let's advance yourself, keep working hard, and build a desire to keep doing things. Do not let anyone make you feel insufficient
But remember, your goal will change. Your needs, your needs, priorities and opinions will also be there. What matters to you seems to be meaningless now in 10 years, 5 years, 2 years. Remember the rest, parts that love and form relationships, parts that you feel unsafe, and parts that you like to learn and improve. They are also part of you
You are mobile. You are very complicated. You are always changing. Please carry your accomplishments with you.
N: So, there are several ways to improve your performance as much as possible. My first secret is to make sure that your achievements are related to whatever you like. In many other traditional applications it may be necessary to write articles about scholars, but it is not necessarily just about scholars. Achievement can be covered when you show thousands of leadership, passion project, sports, or what you feel very strong, you were working
Write down your three achievements. Please do not say that this department has nothing. Several things, maybe a lot, you choose not to pay attention. No matter how small you may be, you can do anything about your achievement. Actually, in a sense, "Smaller is better", but it is worth noting that you confirm yourself what you did. And, really, it does not have to be in Mount Everest. No matter what you do, you must be under the surface - what is really your achievement underneath? What are your skills, skills, strengths, talents, desires? When specifying, please use it everyday.
You think that your accomplishment and skills are not what you did. From the outside, you may seem very successful, but you may think that it is attributed to accidents, help, and others. Or you may know that your skills have not reached the standard, and you are just waiting for the world to discover. . . The first type of "impossible syndrome" refers to those who hide in the workplace and fulfill the obligation of weak execution. They may be hired for positions or the