Why the Best Leaders Give Without Expecting Anything in Return
[2023-10-23 16:43:35]
Needless to say, you should always look for ways to provide value to others. I have discussed a lot about this, and all the companies have built up these relationships, created media sites, written articles, made videos, gained leverage and created new customers by value I proposed to create content that will bring about. This is the best way to sell items today.
On the other hand, it is as important as providing this value. When you give something to people that you know that they are having fun as you need, it is because the relationship you build may mean someday, right? Business, dinner, drink, or new job? Well, of course. In order to function, all relationships need to be bidirectional. In fact, however, before such a situation occurs, it is necessary to give the expected value of zero return.
I am serious. I am doing this, I am happy about it. This is the talent I was born, this is the quality I'm seeking others. If you have it, it is also a big competitive advantage; you have not been bothered by waiting for your "payment", so you will be with many other people in your life It will start automatically. You are happy just by giving it to you.
The truth is that people like people. I connected. People do business with other people. You will win when you learn to give those people universally without expecting you to do anything to them. If that is the reason we become good people with good faith, you will perceive the world in various ways
Now I do not know if you can teach this; I have it. There is. As time passed, I did not grow up my expectations. Unfortunately, there is no "lack of expectation" exercise to improve it. Just like every other perceptual change you may experience, you only need to work every day.
So I can not plant it on you. You have to do it yourself. But I say this: If you have it at birth, then triple. Please do not suppress. Do not say to cynical people that you are too good or too doing anything in your life by doing so. They are wrong. It's a big lever of life, I highly recommend it
It is necessary not only to be a good leader but also a good person. Please do not expect returned goods. If you see something contrary to ethics, please talk at those meetings and classrooms. Let's become a person who makes eye contact with a stranger for the first time with a beautiful smile. I will also call someone who has not received you yet. Whatever you do, be sure to implement as many practices and skills as possible (even every day). You can even list the number of times you made it to make it like a game. No one will compete with you, but you are the best competitor
I will not return any healthy relationship. It is given freely. People can correctly call it a real gift of love. Unhealthy relationships give rewards. In a healthy relationship, trust is the main force of work. Hooks and cheaters get support from each other. Your best interest is always the most important. If you have real love, you and I think that you can tell the other side: "I hid you." You fully trust each other . Because you know that your partner will never betray you, you can relax, do not worry about this relationship. On the contrary, unless there is an ROI as expected, unhealthy relationships rarely occur and there is always a price to pay for it. When it is given, it expects a boomerang profit
Generosity is defined as free dedication without expecting returned goods. The best human being Muhammad is a model in this regard. Unlike those who respect reverence, love, praise and loyalty, those who give rewards of charity, Lazar Allah (the Prophet of Allah) does not consider these things. When a person gets something from him, he or she will feel they are doing a prophet. Mr. Rasul Allah, even in front of the prophet, is known for his generosity. When he got the first revelation, he was shocked to go home. 'Allah never insults you, you are good to your relatives, you are loyal to you, you help those who need help, yo