You Just Don't Understand

Deborah Tannen is the author of the book "You can not understand". She is analyzing the various meanings of communication between men and women. According to her survey, women and men use the same words and phrases, but they can interpret the same words and phrases in different ways and respond. Tannen compares the two men and women and discovered that men are using their conversation as a sort of competition or maintain their independence. For example, men talk about knowledge about sports, cars, women, and foreigners. At the same time, women try to nurture intimacy through communication.

More importantly, summarizing the main points of the book, you will have to understand the content of the book. You will notice that it is not easy to provide a brief summary of new content. That is because you do not know much about it. If you truly get something, the ability to teach it is free. As Einstein said, "If you can not explain it simply, you can not understand it well."

Pay attention and learn to understand the micro proficiency. Like bricks in the building, these are trivial things you realize. You may read the chapters in the book and you may notice that you are completely accustomed to understanding it, so you try to understand more than you anticipate. You can build particularly skilled texts about perception and then celebrate your brain by alternating rhymes of your head. Even if you seem to "lose it" again (you are always there, it gets stronger) stick to practice at a challenging time or reach a small part of the skill

Do not make me smarter because you do not understand someone. The lawyer I deeply respected said to me. If they do not understand it, they will not build it.

I have a theory, and if you understand it, you will be more civilized. More friendly. I understand it more subtle. You will better know yourself and the people around you. It emphasizes the complexity of human decision making and explains why the government is completely impossible to smartly manage the world. Prior to this, economists were confused about the value of the substance against the total value of society. Water is very precious. I need to live. Everyone wants it. So, why is not it cheap to buy, even in a race like race, and diamonds are too expensive? Does this mean there is something wrong with the world in need of repair?