Womanhood and Failures through the Burden of Self Esteem

For young and enthusiastic college students, the expectations of fellows, teachers, and parents become distracted and may be exhausted emotionally. It is a top priority for children to succeed for most parents and they hope their children will exceed their parents' expectations by achieving good grades and high standards at school. In Janice Mirikitani's poem "Suicide Note", college students from Asian American women work hard to achieve their parents expectations. She could not get the average grade expected by her parents and she did not have enough power to face them personally.

The desire to "feel good to yourself" is a big aspect of human nature. The fight against self-esteem often has a bad influence on students from the social aspect to the academic side. Self-esteem is mostly defeated and criticism and refusal are diminished. If the student's self-esteem is low, you may suffer from various psychological difficulties such as loneliness, school failures, depression. "If young people recognize all the promises and challenges facing life and ultimately take full responsibility, they must be careful to enhance healthy self-esteem . "However, very high self-esteem is not necessarily healthy self-esteem. When a child becomes arrogant and not just pride, it becomes unhealthy and has unnatural results as it has an exaggerated idea of ​​what you can do. Children who take negative or dangerous actions and take other people have abnormally high self-esteem

Low self-esteem can be a big burden for young people. Young people with low self-esteem are at risk of being bullied, bullying others, taking medicine, drinking alcohol, or having suicidal ideas. Establishing adolescent self-esteem is a slow and difficult process, but if you can identify the factors affecting young adults' self-thinking, you will know where to begin. The beginning of puberty can fight young people 's pride. As her body begins to change, she may begin to feel self-conscious about these changes and how she grows with her friends. Boys may be perplexed because they are smaller than friends, and girls may be embarrassing if her breasts grow and she begins to attract unnecessary attention from elderly men. When she began to crush the companion, the teenager would care more about her appearance than when she was a child.