Will I regret spending too much time studying during university years? I rarely meet with friends outside class. I'm an introvert, an international student, and plan to start my own company. That's why I find it easy not to meet with new friends.

Do you think that you made significant progress in the process of learning? (Have you not reached many dead ends?) Are you always in a flowing state?

Have you sacrificed something meaningful through many learning (such as the time you can spend on personal growth)?

On the other hand, you may miss many life experiences (the most mature period of your life) when you learn too much. In extreme terms, it can hurt even friendship (see why so many students dislike preparation as extreme examples). For college students, making friends is easier than in later years.

But it really depends on how many people at your school are close to you and how long you think you have to get along with them, not how much you study. Do not miss the role of learning outside the classroom - if not more important, this is equally important.

Also, what is the most common regret for graduate students? People's regret about learning too much is not really realized until you graduate. Even if you are a superstar, even if you are constantly studying or earning high scores, after graduating from college, most efforts are meaningless, especially when you quit your studies Become. ) Understanding from the problem set is different from the understanding gained from reading a paper or discussing research with other people.

As there is not much communication between graduates and undergraduates, many regrets are not conveyed to new undergraduates (although reddit and quora may change this trend). Only by talking to alumni, I can truly understand that people really regret.

There is a big difference between "hard" learning and "smart" learning. In order to provide more context for learning, we need to gain more experience in "real society". No In addition, even if you forget most of what you are learning at the end, there is no point in the end. If you learn too much without an appropriate career, you will forget the majority of what you are learning. As an answer to the reason, does Caltech reduce the core curriculum of undergraduate departments? As a good example)

PS: I am sorry that it takes too long to study. After all my problem is that I studied wrong things (I do not have long-term personality adaptation). As a result, I learned more (and much less) because I did not learn first that I had better personality.

If necessary I will show outgoing quality - meet new people and go out with friends at job interview. You never know I am introverted. I can treat myself in a big group, but I like one-on-one conversation. Extroversion is not natural, but I feel it is necessary. After all, I will come back from the exhausted big party and I will not have energy. There is no problem with this. I accepted an introverted self

As it is introverted, I like to be alone. The concept of making new friends seems wonderful, but it is not always easy for me. When I attended college, I was an editor of my school magazine, and I was forced to meet a group of people I knew little about at that time. I refused almost any opportunity for anxiety. But now it is said that the same experience as the same person made me my present of today. They are now girls who are spending their time editing my first novel and sharing my articles with social media accounts. In the process of working with them, I learned how to be better writers, lecturers, workers, and leaders. It will be a great help for me in the business world.

Inward is a blessing and a curse. I lived with my family for six and a half because I feel that I can save time, but on the other hand, I often spend a lot of time there and I am secluded I start to feel isolated. So I need to make more effort to go outside. Making meditation, diaries, painting, making scary space, and making other health trends at home is really useful for me, I will not feel a more balanced, better way of thinking, calm, anger . Adopting health care is not just a stage but a way of life. Trying out this year's energy cleansing, aura, and guidance of meditation has had a big impact on me.