Why I Am Always Late

In the last two years of my life, I thought that my name is "you are late." If I have heard of this, I have heard it 100 times in my life for 16 years. This is very rude, but I came here in good faith. My father's family is always late. My life is sitting there, waiting for one of them to arrive. I would like to grow in that atmosphere, but it needs to wipe out you. That makes my mother go crazy. The characteristic of this wonderful family is where my story takes root.

Until late at night I always dislike late at night. In bed, but very awake, until late at night. It is surrounded by darkness, but I ate it till late at night. Idea They seem to be in a hurry all the late. Please tell me the reason why you will not leave, I just want to go to bed. I was all worried. I do not remember half of it, but it is important for me. That late night. I think that I thought myself was one of those late nights. Change these late late into the day of segmentation. Positive thoughts Strike the subconscious as needed. I hold him till late tonight. Day? late? Everything looks the same. How long have it been abused? Everyone late at night. What did they tell me? Countless nights, I got late. Complain. For what? I think they missed the opportunity. On the surface, quality seems to be "reaction". what? Hold me till these late late. On the surface, quality seems to be "unknown". To whom? For you?

The perfectionists are always late. I used to be a person. I always try to find the right time to speak, rehearse 10 times, try not to disturb other people, I imagine that the audience may be preparing 200%. I am always late. In fact, I have nothing to say. The other senior leaders are exactly what my ideas bothered me. I dislike myself. As a single woman in a large group of Asians, youngest, youngest, youngest, elderly, I was weakened. Today, I do not think that it is Asian, youngest, youngest woman. I met up.

We can not always see such things in ourselves. When I was late, I learned more about why I was late, what I was going to do, and who was late. External observers do not have this. For her, I am always late. I do not mind making excuses. If the excuse is sufficient, it may change the external observer 's judgment about the observation. But that does not change the observation itself. Observing without judgment means that when you see your work, you do not mind yourself, not embarrassment, but to record what you saw. Please read what you see. This is an example. If you want to see yourself through your listening skills it may take a week to track the percentage of time I've heard and the time I spoke with each call I participated in the week. You can make such simple charts like this: