Why do People Repeat Themselves

Did you wonder why people repeat the same thing over and over again? This is because they can not hear their needs. I remember a day when I went to the airport with what I thought was an airline ticket, but I went to the ticket office and found my own itinerary. "I can not believe it, I thought it was a ticket." It was not only when the ticket seller gave advice, but only when I finally stopped listening to my story. Repeat this

One of my patients continued to tell me, "My mother said ..." (I can not remember the complete sentence). I finally went to her and said, "Mary, I heard what your mother said ... ...". After that, she stopped repeating herself. Another patient came to the nursing station and kept his concerns repeated ... that is. "I am worried about losing my job, I am concerned about my dog, I do not want to gain weight." I went to him and said, "Bob" He quit going to the nursing station for the remainder of the night.

Everyone needs to listen. However, one thing I observed was that I could not hear the voice of others. But this is one of the fastest ways to bring comfort and calm.

When someone bothered me and began giving advice to make me feel depressed, I just wanted to hear what I was relieved so I did not start talking.

How many times have you experienced this? I remember asking someone if I could talk with him. He said, "Of course" When I started talking, he started talking about my problem. It is similar to mine. But when I only want to express myself to gain peace, my heart will listen to him.

When next time someone wants to talk with you, you do not mind giving advice to them, comforting them or listening to their opinions without having their own attention to themselves Is it?

Some people want to emphasize what they say, so some people will repeat themselves. Other people repeat themselves as clues to start talking. This is a characteristic of several cultures where disruption of other cultures is considered rude, not rude. As an active listener, you should focus speakers on their subject. If they start to repeat themselves, for example, saying "Yes, I understand this" can ask questions to advance the dialogue, for example. If they keep talking about trivial things, you need to figure out if they just want to talk or not know what they need. For example, you can ask "What is this related to company problems?" Or "Is this part of the same problem that we explained or is it another question?" I will.

Is there a possibility that history will be repeated? This seems to be an unlikely concept, but it is not taken far enough that it seems so. It seems that it has been repeated many times in history. One of the best examples is the Salem Witch Trials of 1690, reproduced in the red-sized form of the 1950's. - When faced with fear, humans are more predictable than imagined. When faced with a threat from an unknown enemy, people take irrational actions and quickly identify the root of fear by accusing others. These people are usually abandoned or are people different from the norm defined by society. Respond quickly to these opponents, often very demanding

A human baby does this. If you give them a track and say "track" they will start it on you repeatedly. They will repeat it as soon as they play, or say "track" to ask for a toy. Dolphins do the same. When Reiss gives a symbolic keyboard to dolphins, something like "ball" gives a special whistle for each item, and these animals do not even have to train to use it. When the trainer tossed the ball into the "ball" whistle, I noticed that dolphins could make a sound asking for a toy. When they play with things, they even begin to whistle back to themselves.