Why do embarrassing moments make you stronger?

When I was sixteen, I really thought that my brothers are my father and my parents are really my grandparents.

I am dissatisfied with this news. I was depressed all the time and was depressed. So I relied on my best friend I trusted and told her what happened. I poured my heart and told her everything. The next day, everyone in my school knows

I was bullied by cruelty, I have no friends, I do not want to go to school anymore. Every day I am called a baby baby (My real parents are 13 years old) and "bastard". Then they began teasing my appearance. The man I crushed will ask me, they are just saying they are joking or mischievous. I began to hate who I am and who I am. I want to get involved in the ground. Of course, to tell an adult to jack

One day, I was crying in my room by myself. In my head, I always said "I am hoping that I have never existed." "And why am I not born to anyone else, I can not change that!"

I noticed that I can not change myself. They should not comment on what I think about myself. I am not Bastard Bitch or something else. I am Rossi. When that is over, I will tell everyone that I will regret if I call you. I punched them when they did. I will head to the square. I already warned them. I do not want to use violence, but this is the only language they understand. Yes, I have some problems, but I can say that they let me stay alone. My grades are beginning to return to normal, I am feeling better.

I am not saying that battle is the answer to bullying or harassment, but sometimes you have to stand up for yourself when the bullfight does not stop.

I was born out of this experience. I realized that only you are controlling my emotions. Others can not change their own opinion.

I thought about a lot of embarrassing moments in my life and I understood this: a nasty moment will make you stronger. Do not believe me? If you are afraid of being embarrassed in the public, think about the following methods, and you can see a faint sight of hope for annoying social mistakes. Shinjiro, but I promise to come someday when you laugh at these moments. You think that "the worst moment of life" will not suddenly feel so sick, you can practice the story skills. (People like listening to the moments of other people, this may make them feel better about themselves.) This leads me to the next point.

Please acknowledge that you are embarrassed. When an embarrassing moment occurs, it is best to accept it. You can not return to the past, so what is the point of total denial? Recognize myself, and other appropriate people You have an embarrassing moment. This may be a good way to start a conversation with others, as they may have an embarrassing moment to share with you. Explain why this happens. There may be situations where you can cause your embarrassing moment to be understood and explained. For example, you can call a person with the wrong name throughout the day. But when you contemplate the affair, you will notice what you were thinking about others.

Everyone experiences some embarrassing moments in his or her life. Likewise, I experienced such an event. It's easy to remember an embarrassing moment, in most cases makes us laugh, but in my life the most embarrassing moment of the day will be shared with you. You can laugh out loudly by knowing my terrible moment, but I do not want to recall this in the form of writing arguments.