Why are some people mean to nice people?

This happened to me during my childhood. If I could play with "cool kids", other people think that I think that I am cool. These people are very manipulated narcissists.

I still remember what these children took frankly, taking my mine without my permission and saying "We are friends." They never answered me again.

Do you know what I did? I do not want to be with you any longer. I am excusing, I will not give a penny to anyone. I started doing things my way and never relying on someone's help. I do not trust anyone

People call me ass *, bastard, arrogant SOB, and all slang they can think of. But they no longer call me idiots / fool / ATM

As the years passed, I saw many friends, but I think my BFF is rare. Those people are really kind and gentle, but they are not stupid.

Right now, I am not in a hurry, I give money but only the specific charities I believe are doing well and those I know need emergency. I am a workman and I talk to everyone. But I have my own boundaries and rules

Very good, but set a border, irony, make friends with people you can trust, rely on. It is enough if you can find a person with these qualities; instead of socializing with a group of people you do not trust.

Speaking of humility and courtesy. Foreigners living in Japan have heard that even Japanese people know that there is a "behind the scenes" culture. Some say that they do not always say it when they smile at you and are good for you. Others say that pointing out your face directly may be a very rare situation. Therefore, in order to travel in Japan, you need to have sufficient self-awareness when problems arise. In Asian major countries I think that it is more common to have a "behind the scenes" culture. However, my Chinese has improved this. If at least we are not satisfied with something, I will show it and talk later. I will turn things to your face.

Especially in the business and professional world, truly outstanding people are not unusual and rarely are majority. Claim author Anila Syed said this regrettable fact means that if you are really kind, it is sometimes misunderstood or even suspected. People say "You believe that you have the motive for the ultimate motive, otherwise why do you have to do all these special things," she warned. According to these skeptics, there is no such thing as "there is nothing like free lunch," it's too good ".

The problem is that it is a good person. Good like good. Good people, in so many cases, do not believe what they say or do, to do these things, they would not have been better, saying some hard things is difficult to do. I'm a good person to help me transition to a good solution because I am confident. One is confident that if we speak out and speak out it will not do better because we can do to make us meaningful, richer and fulfilling in our relationship. The best relationship is to recognize each other's goodness and best, and their weaknesses and limits, and our equality in relationship. At the same time, we understand our relationships with ours in strengths and failures. Collaborate with these challenges and obstacles so that our relationship will be meaningful. Well, you can not do it if you just want to have a good