When Disappointment Is The Best Thing For Us

My first book will be announced within a month, and I confess: I will never want to be a writer. In fact, I do not think that I am a good person at all. When I typed, I was able to hear that hundreds of people in the country are crying under their breath, "Duh" Well, a fictional critic, I can not agree with you .

In other words, in the past three years, more specifically the writing is published. This is an obsession for me. It is not a long-term personal goal, but I have to admit what I feel as publishing has the potential of pursuit. Certainly certainly, I am really proud and at the moment I am accomplished. At the same time, however, I felt confused and curious familiar feelings.

This is a story of my life, I fully believe that some careers, relationships or other wishes will satisfy me, but eventually I am disappointed. When I was a high school student, my dream was to enter the Ivy League college. It took only a semester to realize that all the things that Yale did are leading me to the way to a huge financial debt. But I saw my wife staying there, so I think it is worth it.

So I pushed the disappointment of the university aside and directed my attention to the next summit: my career. I became a doctor and decided to become a better missionary. I seemed to be a perfect fusion, so I chose a "doctor's doctor".

We all experienced the pain of shattering hope and breaking our dreams. Disappointment is only a part of life. But the last thing I wanted to hear when I was in a very dark place was that this disappointment was "for the best". This outdated guarantee is very empty. I feel like I deny my fact with pain.

I think it's all cool. There should be new opportunities for new people to talk, to learn and to learn. Life never disappointed me, but I felt disappointed that I thought that I was the best, my best friend. I do not say what is wrong with the story, but I found a jewel here. My current roommate and two other friends with a great sense of humor hurt my chin while laughing. Returning to the topic, you will see people with different perspectives, language and pronunciation when you finally enter the course. Everyone is talking about differently, the reason for entering medical school is totally different. It is almost impossible to understand at first what they want to say is because of the accent, but as time goes by it will get used to. At the beginning of the day, you are afraid to open like an open book, do not know how to communicate, and slowly begin to fail. From formal conversations to satirical comments, this is a matter of time.

I like his view in Michael Neill 's book "The Space Within: Finding a way to go home". "The best thing about experiencing peace of mind is to be available anytime, no matter who you are disappointed, what at the time, and what were you thinking about?"

Many of us are continuing our lives and are very afraid of injuries - I am afraid of disappointment. No matter how frightened we are, we can not deny the fact that disappointment is waiting for us. If you are tolerant of the possibilities of great things, you will also suffer from recession, difficulty, disappointment and loss. In the event of a disaster (which is the case), we must know how to handle it. I am not ready to ride a roller coaster. Sorrow about expectation. God's frustration depends entirely on trust, and my next thing is visible. As a result of inner self-confidence, anxious, it makes me feel like I jumped over a cany like Chris Farley.