When a Child Is No Longer a Child

Friend Lucy Rosen posted this post on her Facebook page: "I have friends and kids going to college, my friend has paid for this young man's apartment, reservations with his school. The tuition fee granted him a grant.Parents have the right to log in to the school's dashboard to check grades and projects?

Yes, most respondents said. The answer is clear. Some people think this is the right of parents to supervise children; some people think that those who pay bills have rules

The problem is more complicated. There is a difference between whether there is a right to take action and whether action is taken. The former question is often a legitimate question and the answer is obvious. When a child reaches 18 years of age, or regardless of the age of the child, parents lose the right to receive records of the child's school. The law states that everyone at the university is an adult and has the right to receive the same privacy protection law as other adults.

Adults may differ in legal and emotional ways. Alternatively, parents may not want to admit that their children have become adults. This is more about family dynamics than any legal and moral right.

Of course, parents can ask their children to share their records with them. Parents are free to do so. Therefore, the problem is to force the child to reveal whether the information is correct. Is it morally right for parents of adults to ask their children to disclose information they would like to keep secret?

If the child is a minor, parent-child relationship is one thing. Parents are responsible for providing safety, health and education. Children are not responsible for their parents. However, when a child becomes an adult, the moral weight changes. Adults have the right to be regarded as an adult even if they are children of a certain person.

In the case raised by a friend of Lucy, an adult child is still dependent on his or her parents. This history can not be ignored, but if parents continue to receive financial support, the relationship with parents' adult children will be as follows. Like other adult-adult relationships

Paying money to a child University education can be considered an obligation or a loan. If it is not interpreted as a parent's responsibility, a string is not required. In the case of a loan, it is necessary to explain the limit amount in advance. This is an adult's function. Even if a child behaves like a jerk, even though the parent may see it, the adult's child is an adult

In most cases, the child leaves that child 18 months before the child, or if the child is within the best interests of the child. In exceptional circumstances the child may be allowed to stay longer, but the general expectation is that the child leaves the unit 18 months ago. When the mother enters the unit, the separation plan is agreed by the team and the mother participates in the process. Under federal law in Ethiopia, infants under 18 months of age are under the supervision of the federal government and require fine obstetric care to be able to live with their mothers.

When a child reaches 3 years old, the medical staff must report whether the child should be accommodated in prison for a long period of time. However, except for the special authority of the Secretary General, you can not detain a child after reaching 4 years. If the child is 3 to 4 years old and you do not have any relationships or intentions with your child, you need to receive special instructions from the Director. There is no information on the number of children living in prison with their mother.

According to the laws of South Sudan, children of female prisoners can stay in jail with their mother until the child is two years old. At the age of 2, the child must be placed with relatives; if there is no relative, the child is placed in the nursery. However, if there is a "reasonable reason" for this, the prison authorities may allow the child to keep living with his mother even after the child is two years old. Prison authorities offer special accommodation in mother's hall for mothers and their children. After the child enters the prison, he / she must see a doctor in the prison. When the doctor completes the report, the child lives with the mother in the room assigned to the mother's mother.