What things did you learn from your father?

I was bullied by two boys at school at the age of twelve. They are 12 to 13 years old, which is a major problem for the entire school, but the behavior of bullying has not gained enough attention.

Friday is so bad that I remember crying and took me to school in front of my father. Saturday morning, my father took me for a hike. Since we talked a lot about my problem and talked only to us, I detailed my feelings (my mother is very happy to know and talk about my feelings). Dad listened carefully, asked me a question, and finally said:

You have caused fear of these bastards, and you can not forgive it. This kind of fear makes you a confident hostage, you will never forgive this, it is worth fighting for

You do not have to go out all. You know, one of them is "alpha" inside the gang, you must knock him down, and the rest is done. This is definitely a wonderful strike. When you look vulnerable, you know what you do not want the most attack. Like things that hit armpits. You can also apply more load with heavy objects. If you do not take him down with the first blow, you can not stop. Target a vulnerable area such as kicking the testicle; this will disappoint him for a while. The bullies are weak inside, they do not expect resistance, and amazing attack put them in panic mode

I can not believe this proposal Dad is not a violent person. On the same weekend, one of my father and one of my friends who worked at the fighting sports studio met me. I started going there for 12 hours a week, and my father received all my classes. Two weeks later, I was bullied again, but I did not have enough courage to attack. Even though I feel it is totally different, this time I am looking for an option to be able to achieve knockout. It lasts 4 weeks

One day, I was bullied in the garden. A bully of 'Alpha' hit me and I fell to the ground. I remembered the standing up and thought that one of us would be eliminated. "Alpha" approached, I went to the side, beat him with my chin, and immediately kicked my stomach. He struggled downhill. His face is exposed and I am seeing myself at full distance ... So I kicked his face and knocked him to the ground

That is it ... "Alpha" bullies fell because of dyspnea; he was very confused and his head was beaten and bleeding. His partner was still standing, without hurrying, I entered the classroom with my backpack

In the afternoon, I called the principal's office. Dad is already there. I think that I have a problem, but that principle guarantees me that a bully will be sent to a school specializing in problematic children. On my way out of the office, "For today's quiet girl like you, today's response is quite amazing, let's be confident and a good person." I grew up. Everyone, this lesson is very important to me. I will remember that whenever I need to believe that I am achieving a specific goal.

One thing I learned from my father was not men in his pocket but a man judged by his personality. It does not matter how rich and privileged you are. You do not need to talk much, it will appear in your actions. Again, it comes from the inside. I can not teach you. Overall, a lot of work is done for yourself. How do you improve and become a better person. The first is to decide to change consciously. After that, you need to support it with everyday customs to get closer to your goal. At first it seems to be heavy, but once you get started, you will see the change. This will motivate you to continue

In your life, I understand the love and longing for your father, and the encounter with your parents. I learned about the story of your stomach and the story behind the necklace you wore. I started to understand your favorite things - your recipe scrapbook, David Shrigley, and your dad's wallet. I learned to like your idiotic song and pet's name. I understand how you are looking at yourself and how you compare yourself to others. I learned that you sometimes deny your feelings. I have learned a lot about what success means to you. I understand what you want to achieve within five years. I began to understand why you are so ambitious, whimsical and impeccable - all these features arise from adversity. Why were you so convicted by so much faithfulness? I understand what you are still learning. I understand that you are not always right. but it's okay