Watch Out, Moms; New Shaming Trend is Aimed at You

2023-02-21 22:04:42

On the blog of Huff Post Parents, author Rachel Garlinghouse points out a new trend noticed. Take a picture of a mother who thinks a stranger is inappropriate using a mobile phone and publish it online, where is your mother? It is condemned by thousands of strangers - in most cases, she did not know

In another story, a stranger took a picture of a mother taking care of a baby at a restaurant, posted it online and commented that she needed "disguise". Once the photos were virusized, the mother in the picture saw it.

Garlinghouse pointed out: "Mama is accustomed to giving advice from relatives, friends, neighbors, colleagues and sometimes even strangers are annoying and disturbing, but taking pictures of her and her child I will give myself a crucifix: I am mothers who do everyday things, such as eating, browsing items in the shop, walking on the sidewalks, etc. "

"When photographing or posting women's pictures, the women's pictures to take and post pictures are weak to openly humiliate them, online about the people who took the picture, their mothers and children I understand people who chose to write comments, "Garlinghouse wrote. . "This is sometimes better than sending out a hand without doing anything, raising a smile, putting a word of praise rather than attaching a word to those who are willing to dismantle the women who are breeding the next generation is showing."

The inner friction of the mother heard in our mind is difficult to silence, but people need to pay attention to their careers. I agree with Garlinghouse: Avoid it unless you see your parents doing really dangerous things for their children!

With the rise of Twitter and various other social media, the old public shame cycle reappeared. It's so embarrassing, if it does not happen to you, you may see that you are instigated, caught up, or other people get humiliated. Shame is usually guided by corrective action or a person or summoning offenders themselves or a small agitator. These leaders often build large followers by using extra-large measures to humiliate others, many bystanders - or literally followers - to ride -

In recent weeks, Garlinghouse noticed the story of two people in her social media news program, where every day - not a celebrity - mother is ashamed that thousands of strangers do not do the right things online online ing. In one story, the manager took a picture of a mother wearing a 5 year old child while shopping, posted it on her personal Facebook page and commented on it. The picture turned into a virus, and the mother in the photo saw it later. Garlinghouse pointed out: "Mama is accustomed to giving advice from relatives, friends, neighbors, colleagues and sometimes even strangers are annoying and disturbing, but taking pictures of her and her child I will give myself a crucifix: I am mothers who do everyday things, such as eating, browsing items in the shop, walking on the sidewalks, etc. "

Pictures with Mama are always amazing. We are there, hug me, or kiss her face. Everyone is laughing and seems to be very happy. If your mother goes to a bar to drink like a hotel, you will introduce her to the girls you are interested in and will play the role of a perfect gentleman. Then you will meet a girl's mother, your mother will cry your 2 lovely couples will do. The group photo seems to be always very cold. Several hugs are happening, but they are those strange side hugs, and Christians seem to like giving each other very much - "Keep some space for the Holy Spirit." It looks like a philosopher everyone is trying hard; smile seems to be forced a bit. When Dad came to the bar they turned to Frank Tanks or scanned the room like a Terminator. Most people have never introduced a father to a girl who is interested. Unlike my mother, my father and I received dinner and caught up before he left.