Last month, the former Green Beret Sergeant (retirement) Carl Eriksson explained a simple military tactic that can be used to judge whether someone is lying. But now you know that he or she is going to shoot you, then what? You still want to know the details of the truth.
Here are some of the soul games Erickson learned during his longtime work, and his training with John E. Reid and Associates.
"So in this example, I think that one employee shares confidential information about your company with its competitors," Ericsson says. "You want to start with the same question in three different ways: they are not looking for messed up messes with them, but rather they are carefully repeated phrases that show they rehearse their answers In searching for business, politics and war, careful selection of words is a good move and there are things that they do not want to let you know. "
"Instead of shouting my hands on the table," I have to tell everything to all! "I took the opposite approach. I said I was standing by them. If I am in your shoes, I may do the same. Please open and relax. "
"If you're just shrugging your shoulders, I will start talking about what happened based on the facts I have. Again, for employees who share the topic of confidential information, I say After playing BSing, a casual conversation appeared, I did not know, but after fully understanding how this happened, he gave you $ 20,000 information "He "Now you are making some confession and now if you see the wrong word urging you to speak to this person, I will continue and intentionally I mean something else ... The country club fascinated you to stay far away from golf ... "Just follow along a different path and correct you for what they do not want Accept or expose Please give ample opportunity. "Become their friends, please be gentle. And if you get what you want, there is not a nice guy anymore. "
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