Unrealistic Love

We all want to leave this magical moment to you and make you feel the emotions that you feel awe and words that you can not express with words. In a few seconds, your heart will beat faster and faster without stopping excitement, happiness, and butterflies. You seem to have just taken it out of a love song. The truth of the problem is that the song of love affects the feelings about the love of young people and may create a stereotype that love is the moment of passion and desire. These songs set unrealistic standards, such as relying on passionate moments or just physical attraction to fall in love.

Well, I would like to talk about why I have a problem of love. Love for my family and brotherly love is no problem. I have problems with this type of movie and unreal love. "Oh, I love you!" We turn love into desire. Do not deny it. This is the truth. We (in this country in general) make many misunderstandings about what "love" means. If asked, I think most people will describe love as a strong appeal sense, because it is absolutely desirable to consider another person. When people are in love, we hope and hope that they will spend most of their time, often focusing on the ideas of their loved ones, and they are just more than that person I hope. But these emotions do not explain love at all. They describe desire. Desire is the first physical attraction of others. This is very powerful. Desire is the survival of our DNA

The idea of ​​love as the power of the universe is very unreal. Love is a chemical reaction, it is not a supernatural existence. But is it really so bad? People can learn to love again at any time, knowing that loosing love can be comforted. Instead of maintaining this unrealistic expectation, learn to understand others as a person

I grew up watching movies mainly on the Hallmark channel, but if you have never seen a movie on the Hallmark channel, they have a common theme ... love. This is crappy, magical, excessively romantic, unrealistic love. I am always fascinated by the emotions that they emphasize on those movies, butterflies, when they see people, at that moment they are like the only people in the world. I know that working so hard for such love may not be healthy, but this is a sort of love I taught. I have ideals about how everyone loves themselves and how to be loved. As Stephen Cheboski wrote, "We accept love worthy of you" I can write concrete details, but this list can last a while, so I will leave you ... I believe that love will prosper