Unpredictability of Parenting

Parenting This is the process of caring for your child until it is of sufficient age to take care of you and it can be said that it is the most difficult task. In the play, two fathers playing gardening sang "Daikon" song. And it compared the unpredictability of raising children to the certainty of cultivating vegetables. My father developed a well-planned program to make children fall in love, but their children's unpredictable behavior forced the plans to be unproductive, and he He raised doubts about the job of raising children to his father.

As mentioned in "Dan San" (2012), like the parents, the smiles of children are always worthwhile. But they do not mind many misunderstandings that cause child's teeth and unpredictable results. Baby's teeth are replaced with permanent teeth, but this is the time to brush your teeth twice a day to prevent tooth decay. In fact, it is very wrong for a child to have a decayed tooth between his or her baby's teeth.

Growing with unpredictable parents, the needs of Vacillators are not a top priority. When parents feel that their parents are dedicated again, children are tired of waiting and being angry too much. As an adult, Vacillators are trying to find love that they have never accepted as children. They idealize new relationships, but once their lives (and relationships) become incomplete, they get bored with it. Controllers need control to ensure that the vulnerable negative emotions they experience during their childhood are still suppressed by adults. Control means fear, humiliation, protection from helplessness, but because anger is a sensation that it is vulnerable, anger and intimidation are often used as a means of maintaining control.