According to Aristotle's Nichomachean ethics, happiness is the ultimate goal of mankind. Because humans are all to get it, as it is achieved by realizing the complete excellence of the soul. As a goal, happiness is the greatest in all human life, as it means itself is a purpose and humans do not use it as a means for other purposes. This is not a conditional happiness that Aristotle admires, but rather a contemporary definition of happiness. To practice sincerity and morality, it is necessary for the soul to enter the state of ultimate excellence, and therefore happiness.
Sometimes, I hope that when someone is young, someone will tell me what really means happiness, how to get real happiness, and what really means happiness. Maybe I will not get too crazy and will not be crazy about more money, more qualifications, more toys etc. I am satisfied with the trivial things in my life. Today, when I was sitting in a chair, in front of my iMac my iPad was put on the stand next to me, my iPhone showed infinite notice from social media platform, I got my wife saw. She sat on the floor and played with Chihuahua - as if they were totally her child, they talked to them. When I saw her and smiled, she saw me - give me the most shining smile in the world, then stand up, then walk to me, hug me and hug me again, Are you a happy baby? "
Yes, I have not felt happy for a long time. True happy that innocent smile. My friends and lack of social life are not true. I will do it. But in my opinion, my happiness is not true. Maybe I smile so they smile or I smile with a smile. Otherwise, they will not ask me to go out together next time. For those calling me antisocial, I developed a bad taste. I do not want to disgust with my friends. But I like loneliness, I can eat alone without confusion.
In addition to your partner's love, you may feel calm, you may not have received anything, this is real happiness. This is real happiness when you are thinking about your family and are suddenly smiling at the meeting. When I can do something for my parents, I feel happy. All of these do not require confirmation on Facebook or Twitter. At the end of the day, a few people we call inner circles have joy. As long as we are healthy, we will be happy. We will be happy if we only get the support of the people we love. We do not need to travel to the Maldives, those perfect Instagram shots will make us happy. It all depends on our relationship with our hearts.