Too Easy

The Illinois countryside is humid in July. A flat earth invites a dusty wind to blow lonely songs. The sky does not show a blue hue, but it is always saturated with red and yellow as if the sun is flowing. There is an old house in the middle of a desolate plain. It is not beautiful. The window is covered with dry brown dust and suggests that it has been in contact with humans for years. There was a faded red paint on the roof, once looked beautiful and looked bright.

Distance prevents this limited intimacy to be formed in a meaningful way. When we are away it is too easy to make each other idealized and romantic. It is too easy to ignore secular but important differences. It is easy to get into a drama of thinking, not immerse yourself in the truth of a calm and boring heart.

Because it is easy to believe that your own difficulty is the difficulty you bring to yourself. Collapse all media and popular culture, and your 'authority' story makes it so easy that you believe that shame and violence will be brought into your life when you do sex work I guess. It is too easy to accept condemnation. I think that I can not do it. But when these things happen to your friends - work naked with you, eat birthday cake, get up and cry all night, cry like peace, dream and sorrow - you are furious, just anger You will feel it. This is just one example of how sex worker friends save your life.

It is too easy to complain about Christian culture When we think about what the community can do, or what we should do, we protest (protest - protest). It is too easy to point out bugs and errors, and more or less we can do it. In order to compensate for the existence of God by asking others to be perfect, it is very easy to distract you from the moment you are. If you are part of a church community, that leader is creating a culture of right answer, perhaps it is not necessarily your departure (probably it is!) This means that you love yourself Just as they are learning things, it may be to bring them further, to guide them from the right foundation that you build each other and to make them love them.