This Guy is Proof You Don't Need an "Interesting Life Story" To Be Interesting

He is not interested in even making new friends. He just relaxes and wants to go out with girlfriends and social circles.

As an example, he met a famous television comedian in Sweden a few weeks ago. What will happen? The comedian wants to see you again, and soon they will go out for fun

So, how did he solve this problem? I have known him for many years, so I witnessed what he is doing:

When he encounters people, he does not seek their approval. Unless asked, he never boasted of his achievement. He makes it possible to talk to others and expresses his true interest in the people he meets

Do you know the violent conversation between two strangers when you first met? They have a nervous smile on their face and are nervous at the end of each question.

He is like this. He talked about his idea with the same comfort as if he was talking to someone he knew for many years.

You may want to know where he saw these people. He is involved in what he is interested in. If there are no interesting groups, he will start. Through his life, he has participated in various activities from political organizations to stand-up comedy seminars.

He's an alive example, you do not need to be someone you are not, you compromise who you are, or shallow

"I am not an interesting person, I do not have a story of a cool and expressive life, how can I make my life more interesting?"

One of the things people like about my friends is that he is away from selfishness, you can do it. People thought that he was very funny. Rather than talking about how interesting he is to himself, it always finds him talking, which also attracts others' interests.

When you say that you are good at finding commonality, people say "It is very fun to talk with you."

What are the three things you are looking for among friends? Three common things you like someone. If you know what you are looking for, it will be easier to find.

Look at the comments below and see what others are writing, let's share what you want.

I like to read people's posts from all walks of life here everyone has their own stories, their passions and interests, and their views on life. Everyone on the planet has teaching and sharing. The only way we grow is to listen to everyone. We are all very busy people, there are many things going on in our life. I went to work to go home. We have children, friends, and relationships. We have people we love and people we do not see. We have business, passion, hobbies, and sinful happiness.

Almost all ideas start with a real story. These stories are seeds of fictitious stories. You begin with simple things and then develop it to more interesting things. Here are some examples that explain my way. After these examples, share the question we will use to gain an idea from basic tales to complete fictitious stories. Idea: The society of the future is separated from those who are receiving lifetime gene therapy and those who have not received lifesaving treatment. People who became "immortal" (who do not die of old age or disease but may still be killed) live with fear of dying from accidents and violence. They are living an unhappy life and are afraid of doing something. Scientists have found a way to undo mortality without their consent.

These stories are effective for two reasons. First of all, they are very interesting and involved in everyday life. Secondly, these stories contain two parallel but slightly different versions of the same story. Then there is a story, then there is an easy-to-answer question, we do not have to answer. I can listen and read answers. Each story is 3-5 minutes long and consists of voice and text, consists of 3 parts, each repeating vocabulary and pattern. I will not leave the story until I master it. I began talking about the next story. Repeatedly novelty

Without this form, you do not have a story, you have an anecdote. One anecdote is an excerpt: "I went to Trader Joe's and my check-out went to the same art school as me! Is not life wonderful?" It is not as attractive as a mature story. My coach says to your body that your body is your instrument and you have to adjust it. She taught me how to practice, how to breathe, and how to go up to the stage. She told me the place to see the audience and how to stop the effect. I am still 5 years old and play chopsticks like a piano, but I took a big step.