The relationship between parents and children is different, but the relationship between daughter and mother, daughter and father is various, but normally the same point is included. In some cases, my daughter may ask for special advice, permission, or compensation from my mother for other reasons than my father. For example, parents' punishment, advice, rules, and willingness to give permission or favor may differ and urges the child to go to different parents to achieve different goals.
First of all, it is interesting to note the different responses of father and mother. Dad is a person who stops burning out with cold water, wets the towel, wraps around the child, takes off the diaper and helps the child. On the other hand, most of my mother was watching (of course she had trauma as much as her father). The conclusion I got from that was that my father's behavior and his mother's inaction were not enough to help the child. In addition, the story begins with the father hanging on the door. If we want to obey this behavior / omission theme, we need to wonder what mommy did in the meantime. Based on this, I think that it is really easy for the children to blame their mothers. This actually reminds me of some traditional sex role.
Mommy is 55 years old, a good daughter. Dad is 60 years old, a man with short stature and gray hair. Mother is the natural leader of the two births. She is the decision maker of this family. Daddy will never oppose Mama. He does anything she wants to do. She decided to put her grandmother in the rest of the life "sandbox". Mother made this decision to eliminate some of the pressure in my life. Mommy starts music at a good time and decides to stop music at difficult times. It seems as though she wants to keep the whole world in my own difficulty. So far, my father is more concerned about these two people. He showed this feature by asking his mother whether her grandmother was comfortable in the sand. When his mother died, he also comforted his mother.
This is a big change when you enter your father's life. When we decided to see you, there was a little time for my mum and dad (I think I am very happy). So, if you have doubts, Mama and Daddy do not love you. We certainly do. You are totally 100% planning, expecting, hoping and cherishing. Dad's life change may have been experienced by all parents; this is a shift from responsibility to care for you and happiness to others (and to the pressure and pressure of love). Of course, even when my father married a mother, I took on the same responsibility, but we all think that mommy knows that father does not need to take care of her. If your mother has something to do with it, you now have the same hope.