The Truth About Popularity In High School

It is easy for you to get involved in the opinions of everyone while you are in high school. After all, you spent several years with the same people; they broke up, fought, broke up, watching close friends. There is a drama about who is who and if gossip is true. Among them, everyone wants everyone to like them

It is difficult to tell who is popular. For some, this is a seamless transition from puberty, but others suffer from acne and growth. For others, it is the best snack at rest, or you can buy something from the cafeteria and share it at every lunch. For some people, it is just pure genetic luck. For some reason it seems to make everyone like them.

Regardless of the science behind you, what you have to do is just to know someone at your school. Choosing this cool child from the crowd is not difficult.

Except for other things - your popularity in your high school will be forgotten - your score and how much you owe to your teammate to buy a cola can in you at lunch time

I do not care if everyone wants to sit with you at lunch time or if you have the latest photos of all your grade. Everyone chooses a large battle between the two to forget, and all rumors are meaningless. The "cool" group will be just another group of people, and in any status will remain in the school gates.

When graduating, it does not matter how many best friends are or whether they are invited to a party. You will forget the girl who gave up your group and the girl who sat next to you.

Instead, you will remember the night you spent with your best friend, watch the Disney movies, and dnms when you are going to sleep. You will laugh at the classroom, then go home from school and will not forget to complain about the heat. You will remember the land carnival, you and your staff wear in color and hang out on the high jump mat instead of doing things. The 18 th century you were not invited to replace by the memory you have and spend time in your life without emphasizing whether you look cool

After all, the "popular" group will become the person you forget, and you want to know why you want to be their first place. You can see that something is more important and worthy than collecting as much friends as possible and being invited to participate in most parties. trust me

One of the most stupid things people emphasize is that most of their friends seem to be more popular than them. The truth is that most of your friends may be more popular than you for what is called a friendship paradox. Because there is a high possibility that the proportion of people with many friends is likely to become friends, even if there are actually many friends, it will not be more popular than most friends. Since this is just a strange mathematical attribute of social networking, you do not have to worry anymore.

Truth # 9: You do not want to reach a peak in junior high school (or high school or university). The worst goal you can have is popularity. Teenagers are often popular - competing with fast people, dominating their colleagues and living a superficial lifestyle - can eventually cause problems. A truly successful person pushes you from your own version 1.0 to version 2.0, 4.0, 6.0 etc over time. But when you follow popularity, you will reach a peak in advance. I am caught by the instant satisfaction model and I am looking for a quick solution to meet my needs, so I stop my growth and improvement.

High school is popular. Everyone is doing based on their popularity. For example, if you want to be popular, it usually means you can not join the chess club. The image is all. If you are punk, you must have hair, clothes and attitude. If you are a preppy student, you usually have to have money in order to afford clothes, cars and friends. People who claim that they do not mind can do the same. High school is an image. If I had to classify myself as a group, that might be a skater. A skater is usually a very cool and relaxing group. It is difficult to take a walk, but the skater usually has a spirit of 3 years old. They suggest ridiculous things like jumping off someone's roof, stealing objects from Savers, or riding a skateboard and running the steepest slope of Kaysville. A real skater usually has several bruises and broken bones