The True Characteristics of Shy People

Unless it is a direct experience, we never know how many rejections can change that person's life. I feel that many people are confused, lonely and scared, because it is marked as "different". According to the recognition of "normal" and "abnormal" in society, there is a misunderstanding for everyone. The misunderstanding is because people do not give enough time to make correct decisions about people. Society is getting more and more demanding, expressing various characteristics, criticizing everyone whose behavior is different from others.

It is often said that I am ashamed when I was young, but this is still a bit truth, but embarrassment and introversion have two different things. When people call their children "shy", this seems like a weakness, an apology, but in today's world, people are increasingly respecting. As an educator, I often meet my parents. My parents will disclose to the complain that "Many teachers are worried that Jack is too quiet during class." I sometimes see it on a report card, and I do not like it. Because I understand that being quiet in classes is not so different.

Experts say that quietness is not the same as embarrassment or loneliness. Nicholas Christenfield is a professor of psychology at the University of California, San Diego. He said that quiet people are very sociable and many friends, unlike a shy person. Because they are afraid to say it, they should not be quiet. They just do not want to waste time saying something worthless is worth. Since the conversation encourages more conversation, they select meaningless conversations rather than meaningless conversations. Be quiet it may be powerful. When you are silent, others will feel uncomfortable. They are often forced to fill the silence, so they know more about themselves. This is actually a strategy used by law enforcement agencies to make people aware. Conclusion: Quiet people are really good listeners in the world. When a quiet person speaks, it is usually well-thought out, quality comment or opinion. So you will listen very wisely