The Relationship Cure

"John Gottman ... I once again discovered a gold medal that shows the simplest and invisible care and attention gesture that is the key way to succeed relationships with people we love and work with I am. "

Human relationship therapy is a revolutionary five-step plan for correcting problematic relationships - a collaboration with your spouse, lover, family, friends, even your boss and colleagues. Dr. John Gottman utilizes many powerful new studies to provide new tools and insights for your relationship.

Gottman's simple but life changing five-phase plan includes useful questionnaires and exercises to show readers how to become a major bidder by "turning" effectively to others I will. Through dozens of examples, he tells the reader how to evaluate their strengths and weaknesses in bidding, the strengths and weaknesses of important people in their lives, and how to improve if necessary.

Dr. Gottman, introducing the basic unit of emotional connection called "emotional bidding", stated that all good relations are established by making and receiving successful bids. These bids range from delicate gestures such as quick questions, appearances and comments to a most explorative and intimate communication method. His research showed that people in happy relationships have paid great attention to bidding and bidding in their lives, and he discovered an attractive secret behind the bidding process.

Dr. Gottman of The Relationship Cure is one of a series of books on improving intimacy and presents utilities that enable people to share and respond to each other's "emotional information". This program applies to various forms of relationships such as spouse, father, company. He believes that a successful deal of emotional information will promote healthy communication. In other words, healthy communication creates a sense of connection. He said that they can go well and share the happiness and burden of life when people feel connected. According to his research, the more this happens, the more satisfactory the relationship will be, the conflict will be reduced, the connection will be changed and the opportunity will be changed. Since he has nothing to do, he wrote that this is the main cause of the high cultural divorce rate, it is indispensable to share emotional information and learn to deal with it.

The Relationship Cure offers practical advice based on decades of research and clinical experience, but at least in this book it is difficult to understand more about marriage and the nature of people. Obviously, Dr. Gottum wants to help people recognize and respond to the most subtle love and intensive attitude while hoping to reduce divorce and unhealthy relationships. Perhaps this is the topic being discussed in more detail in his other books. Based on marriage and lack of a deeper perspective on people, this book may be best communicated about the concept of sanctity and dignity in marriage, by a group of readers actively trying to maintain or adjust marriage. not. This person premises