The Preprogrammin of a Child

Children are blank books, parents are pen. Parents and elder make comments and actions, and the kids respond by imitating what they usually said or did. The essence of a child is innocence and trust. Adults work as knowledge, rules, and rules, and children must live and obey. Not all children obey the rules they expect, but some rules are more important than others. When training a child, parents and adults do not recognize that they are practicing these behaviors when they are more serious about gender norms than most others.

Children mode: There are four child modes. These are vulnerable children, angry children, impulsive and trained children, and happy children. Vulnerable children are characterized by sorrow, pain, shame. It includes subtypes of "lonely children", "abandoned and abused children", "swearing and inferior children", but the angry child model is "stubborn children" and "angry Have children subtypes ". The final "competitive child" is a model that meets the basic needs of children. Children's patterns are considered universal and innate

Ignoring children - a very common form of child abuse - is a pattern that can not fulfill the basic needs of children, whether it is food, clothing, hygiene or supervision. Ignoring children is not easy. Sometimes parents may not be able to take care of children physically or mentally, such as suffering from serious illness or injury, or untreated depression or anxiety. At other times, abuse of alcohol or drugs can significantly discourage judgment and ability to protect children. Physical abuse includes physical injuries or injuries to children. This may be the result of intentional attempts to overcome the child or excessive corporal punishment. Many physically abused parents insist that their behavior is just a kind of discipline - a way to learn children's behavior. However, there are major differences in using corporal punishment for discipline and physical abuse.

Child abuse: a series of complex behaviors, including children's negligence, and physical, mental, and sexual abuse of children. Although most people are considering physical abuse first when they hear the word abuse of children, physical abuse is only a part of reported cases. Physical abuse is defined as a physical harm to cruel and / or malicious children, but is permitted by the law that parents or carers may have not intentionally harmed children. Physical abuse may cause boxing, striking, kicking out, biting, burning, trembling, or other harm. Fatal injuries include severe head trauma, disturbing infant syndrome, abdominal or chest trauma, burns, burns, drowning, suffocation, poisoning and so on. Always report, investigate and prevent child abuse