The Power of Your Words

Robert grew up in rural areas and his father was called drunk. Robert is a star football player who has formed a national team at high school and continues to play at a famous university. Football is the life of Robert, but as far as he knows, his father has never seen him play the game.

Inside, Robert felt the sky. At the time, he was unaware of this, but what he most wanted and needed was his father's approval.

After graduating from college, Robert struggled as a business owner. He lacks self-confidence and interpersonal skills. One day, he received a phone calling to tell him that his father had a heart attack, but probably did not happen. Robert rushed to the emergency room. The corridor was bright when he entered the dark room, his father was still lost.

"Doku, have you said to my son Robert? What is a man, an athlete, he is a great football player, he really deserves attention, he runs like a lightning bolt Now he is a success, a businessman, he is clever and talented, I am proud of Doc, I hope that you can see him. "

On that day, Robert asked what he wanted to hear for more than 35 years ago. His father's warranty and pride are like healing supplements throughout his body. Robert 's father survived the heart attack and all of them got new prospects in their own way.

Today, Robert is the CEO of a multi - million - dollar multinational company - a successful businessman explained by his father. He eventually learned that his father took part in some of his games, but he did not want his reputation to embarrass his son.

The words have no constructive power before they speak. Robert's father never expressed his views in words. "Robert need not hear this from me," he thought. "He is very successful, he knows how good he is."

When people closest to us can not hear what we need, we may feel empty - parents, or only spouses, bosses or friends can satisfy it

You are responsible for the people you care about. Your words, your confirmation, your thing can definitely change the lives of people. As this is your customer, this also applies to your child and your spouse.

Everyone has a big affection on his neck. Screaming when it is a French What he really said is "I feel you are not important to me", "I need love."

Perhaps it is not evaluated, and there is no one who needs to be ignored in the workplace. Important feelings are as important as food. Do not disappear after starting with birth. The need for importance in our work shows our natural desire for meaning in life.

Please try it today. Every room you enter, conversation you join, and your interaction. Grab people to do the right thing. Well looking, if you do well, thank them

Do not underestimate the power of your words. Recently I have shared some personal struggle with my friends. Then he said that I solved the problem I struggled in my mind. He finished the conversation with a strong statement ... "I am proud of you." I have not heard these words for a long time. These five words turn what I am working on into hope and action.

Like other things in life, this requires practice. When you can not do satisfactory things with words, you always have time. But when words appearing in your mouth begin to match physical reality, you will make full use of the talking power to exist. You begin to dominate your life. There are lots of people in our inbox asking for help. When we say "yes" to a thousand small things, we say "no" to the important thing. This makes it difficult for us to fulfill our responsibility to ourselves and others. One day last year I began to receive more emails than in the past. Many e-mails are very sincere, but some e-mails are long. I feel guilty about not reacting, or I just replied in one sentence. After all, I noticed what I said no. So I said to the following and created an auto reply function:

The word is powerful. With text you can create brilliant images in your mind. You can build an emotional scene. You can make a strong speech. But the power of speech is not in words itself. Power is in your ability to use these words most effectively. You should work hard like a hair or dress style. Be careful when you write down the text on the page. After all, these words will replace your position when you are not there to protect them. How would you describe your words and sentences?