The Poisoned Apple: Stepmother and child relationship

The step family is a family that is increasingly misunderstood with families today. Although marriage is difficult, it is far more difficult to marry a stepman. In the US, according to statistics, 16% of all domestic couples have at least one step now [Marianne Dainton]. Furthermore, in the present forecast, 35% to 40% of children born in the 1980s are to spend in step parent families before adulthood. Therefore, these children must understand family and act positively.

In the study "The Poisoned Apple", psychologist (and stepmother) Elizabeth Church analyzed interviews with 104 stepmothers through specific issues. What? "Their experience is contrary to the stepmother of a fairy tale," she reported, "When the stepmother of a fairy tale demonstrates tremendous power, they feel helpless," and they still have "a bad stepmother It tends to identify. " "She calls it a poison apple: they feel" evil "as they experience wrath and embarrassment. This fear of their own "evil" urges them to leave these feelings to themselves.

I believe that all of you know this. A beautiful girl, an evil mother-in-law commanded to lick her appearance and command her to be killed, she will survive, walking with seven little guys, mother-in-law will kill her with a poisoned apple, she will take her from her The first kiss of love woke up during the death need. Magic, Prince, forest creatures, and all Shebang. In addition to the plot ... the movie is about bold animations and music than the story. At that time, Snow White was a wonderful technical achievement. Do not get me wrong. But, as a story? Except for Grumpy, no one can develop a personality. Grumpy, Men Rights Activist ("Her tricks show its effect! But I will warn you. When she is in danger she'll be worried about Snow White. Of course, this Growth comes from giving her a boo to him

In the section on her "Poisoned Apple" study method, the church admitted that she also revealed to her subject that she was also a mother before interviewing. After an interview, she sometimes describes her experience. Many of her subjects acknowledged that they told her about the interview. I can understand - because they are in front of another stepmother, they will somehow feel as if they were allowed to speak. It is like an imaginary failed parent gathering, like an anonymous gathering of alcoholism held in the basement of the church. Relative