The Otherness: Genuiness, Accpetance, and Understanding

To have a solid foundation, to understand the complex relationship between us all with the truth, and to understand the fundamentals of theology, including the fact that we are created in the statue of the statue of God I understand the relationship. To truly understand people, they need to connect with them at a sacred and human level. Highly appreciate all things in common and people's "others". Part of developing and ensuring this true connection involves developing relationships with their real I-Thou, not I-It.

Rogers identified three core conditions that are important for the relationship between the counselor and the client to be successful and can facilitate change in treatment; these core conditions are consistent or homosexual. The third one is sympathy. One of the core conditions confirmed by Rogers is consent or mutual aid, which refers to the ability of a counselor to become a real real person in a counseling relationship. It also requires that the consultant be transparent so that the client can directly meet him / her. However, this may be much more difficult than seen on the surface. For example, if the client's situation is that the pro does not agree with their own actions and beliefs and may maintain these situations, in this case it may be difficult to maintain in good faith.

Sue & Sue (1990) recognizes the central condition of unconditional positive attention, individual respect and loyalty, understands sympathy for customer's problem from their own perspective, the customer explores its core value It enables us to achieve our own goals. Quality of consultation Rogers (1957) argues that in order to become an effective counselor, all counselors need to have five basic qualities. Regardless of the culture, ethnicity, gender or social group to which the client belongs, the nature of this relationship is well established, and it is the same in the consulting environment.