The Micromanaging of Children

Amy Chua's Battle Song by Tiger Mothers is a direct experience of the personal experience of Chua in Chinese way. Traditional Chinese child rearing methods include the strong presence of parents in infant learning and development, the best expectation for children, and strict timetables for which play or overnight hours are not permitted (Chua) 3) . On each page of Chua's memoirs, the daily struggles and victories of children raising China are emerging in light of this theme.

Child care of a widow is sufficient proof that the Chinese educational system has not kept pace with social progress, if necessary. Today 's urban women do not want to spend too much time managing the school life of their children. Her father is aware that their children will achieve their educational desires only through recognition through test-oriented learning, and by recognizing that the tendencies of the natural development of our boys can truly solve the core of the problem I have to help.

You may know relatives and friends who do everything for your child. It is easy to trace children's activities as they are afraid of making a wrong decision by him or her. Unfortunately, child's trace management can become overly dependent on others during adulthood. One study shows that micro management is associated with depression and other psychological problems in college era. For example, control guardians to use destructive criticism or corporal punishment, such as pinching to prevent bad behavior. This negative feedback creates confidence and fear. It also causes adult diseases. Science points out that girls are more prone to feel emotional disturbance and boys are having an attack problem.

It may be attractive to become a superparent at the beginning of the year, but such micro management and participation are often unhealthy. Children receive a lot of signs from their parents, and they feel more tense if you feel pressure by trying more than you do or trying to do more than one thing. "If possible, please volunteer to participate in classroom activities and field trips," Nickel said. "Otherwise, stop sending me e-mails to stop talking with teachers and talk to them. As long as your time permits, building relationships with other adults can help you In the long term, this is a wonderful way to know your child. "