The Importance of Forgiveness

I believe in several things in my life. I believe in forgiveness. I believe that whatever someone does, they will lose their friendship and respect. Forgiveness is a very important thing that I believe, because hatred is not merely disliking someone strongly. I noticed this, but I have reviewed the people who think they will never be forgiven, and how I feel when I think about it. Then suddenly I began to think, "What did they do to destroy my friendship so much that I forgot to forgive them and make friends with them so badly and terribly badly?" It was. They are not bad enough, they are not worthy of my forgiveness.

An example that reminds me of this in particular should forget what happened first when I discussed a lot about such a trivial problem with my best friend. It escalated as more and more discussions progressed until we finally gave up talking. We hated each other for months and fell into nearly countless fist fights. I thought we would be enemies in the rest of my life, and all these fights with my best friend made me feel terrible. One day, in our English lesson, we encountered a very difficult job, but some of them were just caught. We launched a small group to help each other, and my best friend is also a member of the team. The more we work on this job, the more my best friends, the more I asked for help. Then I asked myself, "Is it really good for any of us to hate him?" I guess my best friend can fight for so stupid things I will. So we finally reached the conclusion that we should discuss how foolish things were in English lessons one day and put it behind us and forgive each other. We are best friends, not best friends.

Learning to forgive also helps me become a better person. I always look at how angry this person is, not what they did to me, forgive them, and try to build a stronger friendship.

The importance of forgiveness forgiveness is indispensable to daily life. An important person did something imaginable and the last person got forgiveness. It is important to forgive yourself. So, you can forgive others. In The Kite Runner, novelist Khaled Hosseini talks about the importance of forgiveness in Afghanistan for a long time in Afghan refugee Amir's past and before Amir arrives in the United States. Amir and his father Baba grew up in Kabul, there are two servants Ali and his son Hassan. Before Hassan was raped, Amir and Hassan were best friends, and Amir did not help him.

The idea of ​​forgiveness has penetrated the kite runner. Even though Amir needs to spend nearly all the novels to understand forgiveness, Hassan 's behavior shows that he allowed Amir' s betrayal. The treatment of Hassan by Baba tried to openly forgive him publicly not admitting it. But the most convincing person of forgiveness is Rahim Khan. In his letter, he asked Amir to allow to keep Baba's secret, but also clearly wrote that "God forgives". Rahim Khan believes that God forgives all violations, and he encourages Amir to do so. Rahim Khan understands that it is easy to forgive those who ask for forgiveness, but I understand that it is easy to forgive those who are difficult to forgive. Therefore, the only way to fully allow is when people forgive themselves, this situation will only happen when people actually try to compensate for the mistakes he made.

Regardless of forgiveness or forgiveness, forgiveness is not always easy. However, despite this, forgiveness is an important step to be able to heal and move forward from the past. These mistakes make you angry but you feel that you can be released if you hurt to anger and you can get free You can move freely from the past to a new, better future I will. . Building close relationships with people around you is an important step and can support and help you as you need. Participate in fellowship, spend time with family and friends, participate in various social activities, and build close living networks. As someone knows that you are by your side, helping you through what you experience in life, you can help you feel the comfort as you forgive those you can rely on I will.