The Hurried Child

Most children in today's society run through the life and are blurred missing important milestone lines. They have been exposed to too many mistakes and have been experienced. Parents and society as a whole push this generation up to seemingly mature mini adults, but they are not mature enough to mature yet. As a result, children become depressed, feel stressed, and begin to develop disabilities and obstacles. Parents and society must not only be conscious, but also need to grasp the mental state of the next generation.

A very straightforward person on this trend is David Elkind, a professor of pupils who is a senior resident scholar at Tufts University, and is the author of "Rapidly Children, Rapidly Growing, Too Quick" (1988). He said: "Our society is increasingly compressing childhood in places where children are not children." "When children do not have the opportunity to develop emotional maturity this is only in the US It is not a trend, it is a trend of the developed countries as a whole, including Europe, Canada, Australia, Japan and the UK.

Because this is true. In 1981 when Elkind's book "The Hurried Child" was first published, I was a preschool teacher of Bing Nursery School of the psychology laboratory at Stanford University. B.A. Graduate who just graduated from psychology, I just finished my first job: as a Bing teacher. These children were born from highly educated parents whose names are HP, Stanford University, IBM and the new Apple Computer. Just do my best: If parents' working schedule is inconsistent with picking-up time, children will arrive via babysitter or taxi. Dance classes, violin instruction, tennis, taekando, art classes and so on. These are the wealthiest children ever.

My order and the style of disorder are due to the strict education left to the child who started school at too early age. Hurry, I refuse to move until I get ready. From the bottom of my heart I suffocate the natural creativity of my child who plays and hopes to explore, and is just crazy. I want to get better. The breakthrough in this morning has created a new difference in my schedule relationship. It needs to change my view of the world. Especially after arranging what seemed too much on Monday, I noticed a rich sense of comfort and comfort. New feelings This day seems to have been extended to give me what I need. It is very satisfying that I first used my schedule as a comfortable and safe lifestyle.