The Downside of Resilience

Behind the half-century policy to promote the development of children, there is a hypothesis that children are basically affected equally by their growing environment, so active intervention such as preschool education You should help all the children. But what if this is incorrect?

Among the frequently used metaphor, there is evidence that some children seem to be delicate orchid flowers; if they receive stress and deprivation they will soon die, but they will notice much attention If they receive support, they will bloom. Others like dandelions; they proved that they can tolerate the adverse effects of adversity, but at the same time they are not particularly benefiting from positive experiences at the same time. In this sense, the elasticity that has long been regarded as a unique and useful feature is actually a double-edged sword.

States, municipalities, and federal government, as well as parents and schools, have spent a lot of money for their children to succeed and get out of the problem. Research should help to understand why some children are coming out of development plans with increased capacity and fewer behavior problems, other children do not seem to be much affected - or not at all is. Finally, we may be able to identify the most profitable children and consider investing additional resources.

What will be indicated to distinguish more from the less sensitive children (good or bad) and development experience? There is no single factor, but heredity seems to work.

Elasticity is the ability to deal with uncertainty through rebound. In psychology, elasticity is defined as the ability of individuals to adapt to life challenges, social disadvantages, or very disadvantageous conditions. In ecosystems, resilience is the ability of an ecosystem to cope with interference by rapidly recovering against damage. This is the state we can choose - we can choose to stick to fearing what we know, or we doubt our potential beliefs and assumptions You choose to cast. We can choose to open and "ah" can change the way we see ourselves in the world.

Resilience is normal and not normal. Most people show resilience to adversity. Resilience is not a natural feature but a learning response to the situation. Flexibility is a choice you have to do. Choosing flexibility gives you a sense of control to make you feel stronger. In order to increase adaptability in sorrow, we must consciously try to find progressive energy using some tools: · Take care of yourself physically and emotionally do it. You need to have enough sleep, food and exercise to find the power to work through sorrow. Occasionally sweet waste is sometimes required, but please avoid ice cream and biscuits at midnight. Have anyone tried Burt & Judy's chocolate chip cookie? Yum

Elasticity is the ability to roll with a fist. Even if stress, adversity, or trauma occurs, you still feel anger, sorrow, pain, but you can actively and physically and mentally. However, flexibility is neither tough nor tough fight alone. In fact, being able to connect with others to get support is an important element of resilience. Resilience helps protect you from various mental health conditions such as depression and anxiety. Elasticity also helps offset factors that increase the risk of mental health, such as being bullied and being traumatized before. Be flexible if you have an existing mental health condition, you can improve your ability to cope.