All of us may point to one or two critical moments in our life. I ran across the roof and I came when the gun turned my back. My inner heart broke out suddenly, I only know that I do not want to make this my life. I stopped running. I grew up in the streets of the city. Every community has its own culture and my own. We include skating with your friends and your brother is selling cracks, weeds, or heroin at 20 feet away from the street. Do you know what is wrong with slums?
One of the most decisive moments in my life was that my older sister Julia gave me a book - a career traitor: how to do a great life to do whatever you want ? This is my 20's. I am a high school student and I do not even smell college education - so many of us will say "least likely to succeed". Reading that book and events of other lives such as my sister's death due to cystic fibrosis really caused me a flame and struggled for what I want in my life.
"Do not spend too much time worrying about problems that can not be resolved within a few years." 5 The Emily Lyons Entrepreneur's Secret, Femme Fatale Media Group CEO
My wife Ronda often tells me that I have almost all stories, I think this is absolutely true. By reading the book "Leadership Reflection" you can easily identify many of the decisive moments in my life. The story of my mother's door lock tells me how to face me at school, how to deal with unjust criticism against a difficult director, the impact on my life on my tutor, and the story of a woman who loved life I had to decide whether I fulfilled it. It is a small part of many personal stories. Each represents a decisive moment in my life.
What is the decisive moment in your life? This is a problem for me. For a long time, I treated this problem in the wrong way. Or it may not be right or wrong, but in a negative way. When I had escaped from pain I thought of the moment in my life. Because these moments formed me, made me fight, and made me strong. But as I get older, I noticed that all these "definitions" in my life are beyond my control. They have nothing to do with me. They completed me, I definitely did not define myself. So for me, the crucial moment of my life is to actually learn and clarify how I define myself. I noticed that there was more than I thought. For those who planted me, I can not do anything, or I am not worth it ... I did it. I am worth it