The classic bossy sister-in-law

According to your explanation, your SIL does not mean that, it is just awkward. So my strategy is to avoid her as much as possible. I will analyze you "line item" analysis, ha ha!

1) She is very rude to your MIL - you are not doing much here. SIL is SIL. She is not safe, but she may not even be aware that her crude way of thinking is recognized this way. Please ignore. Better yet, please use humor as much as possible to compensate for this situation.

2) Her strange publication - she may think they are very useful. I say politely "Thank you", put it in my pocket, and throw them away when SIL can not see them.

3) Her comments to your daughter tells her to limit the size of the family - see the number. If SIL says, "No, no more children, your family is already very good", "She has a nice family, I am a very good family! Smile

4) Her behavior of disappearing at dinner - to notice or may have health problems. Either way, I ignore it

5) She wants everyone to walk on Thanksgiving or to have the whole family participate in designated activities - if I want to walk, I will walk. Otherwise, I will carefully refuse the invitation. When I press it, I will fall down again. "No, you go forward, I was just here to read a magazine. Anyway, thank you. Do you want to be with me, MIL" So you gave your MIL . Anyway, if she goes ahead, you can do a lot of things.

6) She did not help your husband with her aunt's legacy - did your husband ask her sister for her help? If he is and she is rejected, he can not do anything. If he is just looking forward without asking, he needs to ask

Last comment If annoying SIL enters your face and you are rude, I will call her. "This is a very rude comment. Why are you saying this?"

As long as SIL is not in your area, I ignore it as much as possible. Knowing that she will not change, there is a possibility that everyone in the family has gotten used to her, this is what they do. I think I can help out! I finally woke up (aka dear Abby, ha ha!)

I complain until my uncle suddenly leaves it, such as waiting to hear more complaints from my young complaint - "Your son does not seem to have a pumpkin sister. I can not bear, it looks great, take out the tools from the kitchen counter and throw my cranky self on the old oak.

I was always organized person. My older sister and brother will say the empire. I want to know what I am doing and make a clear plan. On the other hand, I like to work in ICE, there is not the same two days until the reversal of dinner during problems such as strategic planning, response to uneasy students, formal seat planning and so on. In 1996, my husband's work brought us to Cambridge. Back then, I was still a mother from hospital management to career advice. I found an advertisement for the project manager 's job at ICE' s board of directors at the time, and applied for it at the end of the last. I did not copy my application and ignored all my suggestions for others.

It is my sister Robin and one of her true love John. They met at school ... he did not talk much, but it was not a problem, because my great sister looked after all and had all the conversations for both Because it was. The two who really did not consider it would be a couple. Because they do not have romantic love, people often write down people with disabilities ... but ah, they never saw Robin & John. They laughed and danced and looked after each other. He never speaks ... I really do not know if he can do that ... So Robyn said. They are inseparable. Then Robin was sick ... she began to quit ... and her big love began to disappoint her, she could not go any more ... he I walked for it.