The Cause Of Being Unhappy

People sometimes become unhappy. I had a good time with my host family and my friends, but I was irritated, disappointed, and there are some sad things. There are three main reasons to make people unhappy; their privacy infringement, failure and illness

First, when privacy is violated, people become unhappy. It is very important that people have their own privacy, so when they are invaded by others, they feel very annoying and irritated. Since one of my friends has infringed my privacy, I have experience, so I am very angry and unhappy. One day I visited myself while I was out. There is a misunderstanding between her and me. I thought that the promise was canceled, but she thought that it still existed. She hoped to wait for me in my room and when I got away she told my mother that I entered my room and played my CD player. I invaded my private space without asking me, so I was very angry and uncomfortable. People become very dissatisfied by infringing their privacy

Secondly, when people do not do something, they feel unhappy. It makes sense to them, but when they fail, people are disappointed with their helplessness and incompetence. For example, one day I tried to change phone service because my bill was expensive. I called my own telephone company and explained what I wanted to do. However, the company staff said, "I do not understand what you are saying." After all, I can not change English because I can not speak English. I am very disappointed in my poor English. If people do not do something, they will be discouraged.

Finally, people feel unhappy because of their illness. When people get sick, they are always unhappy. A week ago, I caught a cold. Suddenly, I have a fever at night, I took it.

During this emotional collapse (or spiritual awakening), I analyzed all my addictive behavior in detail and understood the reason behind my misery. In understanding my confusion, I succeeded in finding ways to eliminate some of the emotional toxicity in my life. So, when I did a foolish thing, my mother had this horrible and frustrating habit When I was young I found that for some reason my behavior was inappropriate and always worth dazzling It was. Whenever I see a bad gaze - she gazes at 'see what is going on at home' and stares at it - I know I am stupid. After a certain age I became an expert to judge people's body language and facial expressions, especially to judge if they like my behavior.

Many people will say that my hedonistic erotic lifestyle makes me uncomfortable. In addition to moral glare, I know that my misfortune has nothing to do with my way of life. My misfortune is a by-product of the shortage of goodwill. Maybe I started to get better, but it lost to me - I do not know. I did not tell you that my story is morally superior or it attacks people around me. Even if people say that I am immature and stupid, I will tell you this is correct. Depth is a mere conflict to an immeasurable abyss and will not leave us any hope or insight to improve ourselves. I am as deep as I am, you can not find what I am looking for in my deepest breath.

There are things that you feel uncomfortable in life, such as the end of human relations, unfulfilled dreams, and dismissal in the workplace. However, part of this misfortune arises from our thoughts, customs and actions. Unhappy people learned these seven customs and ensured their self-destruction of happiness. Unfortunate people believe that perfection is the reason for making life happy. The criteria they set are too high, standards are impossible, bring low self-esteem and dissatisfaction. Despite their good or wonderful results in the workplace, they feel they are not good enough. They insist on perfectionist customs and let it dominate their own lives.