The Boy Scout helping the old lady across the street problem.

I tried to define the concept of my goodwill to some older women and used the standard story of Boy Scouts to help elderly women across the street at the crossroads. For teenagers this is a good sign, but when I introduce the idea of ​​doing good in such a way that independence and self-reliance do not deprive the old lady, the conversation will be on the way. Several obstacles have arrived.

Do not you think that old ladies need help to compel their privacy? Did she ask if she needed help to lower her dignity? Are you really helping "shadow space" to walk slowly to provide potential traffic or just to confuse everyone? Why am I trying to help other people from the beginning? Is it better not to avoid events of others unless they ask? All of these problems confuse me. In particular, this particular group is to insist verbally that love is the answer to almost all human problems. I wonder if I am helping the behavior of love?

When I try to explain why the ideal form for helping others is to do small things that do not need appreciation, the whole problem will occur because it is very natural in the flow of things. Most people seem to have to do business when dealing with others and to provide some form of payment for any contract. My idea of ​​small Help actions that do not require payment will be a deliberate gift and will help people become more friendly to themselves. People talk about kindness, except for smiles, they seem to be meaningless and they look superficially superficially. As long as you smile about beautiful weather in an optimistic way, you can get it through these short conversations. And it will be considered kind.

And answer in the second half of your question - I do not know if the scout is in particular in the corner, the only aim is to help a small woman cross the street. But I hope that the scout (in fact, the right person) will help those who are supposed to need it. Do not come and ask me to make badges!

Where did the Boy Scouts help young women cross the street? Are they still doing this?

I tried to define the concept of my goodwill to some older women and used the standard story of Boy Scouts to help elderly women across the street at the crossroads. For teenagers this is a good sign, but when I introduce the idea of ​​doing good in such a way that independence and self-reliance do not deprive the old lady, the conversation will be on the way. Several obstacles have arrived. Do not you think that old ladies need help to compel their privacy? Did she ask if she needed help to lower her dignity? Are you really helping "shadow space" to walk slowly to provide potential traffic or just to confuse everyone? Why am I trying to help other people from the beginning? Is it better not to avoid events of others unless they ask?

The moral meaning is that good people do good things. The Boy Scouts will help old ladies traverse the road, even if he does not intend to cross. If a woman does not want to cross the road, the result may not be completely satisfactory, but the intention is good and ethics. Good people gave up the bus and subway seats, protrude snow from the neighbor's driveway, open the doors, and help the people in need. The moral meaning of good is that you meet rare and kind people who act for the benefit of others.