Teenage Marriage

"Love is a decision, a judgment, a promise, the promise of always loving each other is always unfounded, if love is just a feeling, it may happen if feelings come." - Erich Fromm. Love and devotion brought about a change in married life. So, at which age is marriage appropriate? In the past decades, teens marriage has become the subject of disagreement of many people. Some say that teenagers are not married enough, others think that if a teenager really loves people he should get married.

Teenage marriage is a global phenomenon and has committed terrible mistakes because thousands of young people do not know how to deal with the feelings of young people. Some people who misunderstood their love jumped into premature marriage. Many couple who choose to be together may not be happy. They will marry for the purpose of looking for children or for religious or economic reasons. But in fact they discovered that they do not really fall in love. Since love and erotic love is a natural love like Philia's love (Rosenbaum, 1979), it is natural to consider building a permanent relationship when a couple spends many times together.

Puberty relationships and marriages often become romantic, but although they are legal, young couple may still be disadvantageous, meaning that marriage is more responsible than adolescent young people. Not to mention the difficulties associated with unwanted pregnancies, young families have to face some economic problems because there is little or no chance of finding a high salary job to maintain their families. In addition, marriage and parentage relationship is one of the main reasons for young people not to graduate from high school, which means that young people deprive skills necessary for basic education and social exchange and exchanges. Furthermore, according to statistics, unmarried marriage is more likely to divorce 48% than adults. Therefore, for youth, marriage is a fixed decision.

When teenagers make their children, the situation becomes more difficult. According to statistics, unintended pregnancy is one of the main reasons for young marriage (marriage problem). Even self-sufficiency adults, lifelong work of raising children means faced financial, psychological, organizational and other issues, which means that it is a great responsibility to solve it, so complicated It is a decision. At the same time, teenagers rarely deal with these difficulties. Teenagers must take care of other people and, at the same time (to some extent) take care of the child himself / herself