Sympathy

I am often angry when their help is clearly shown to be misleading or unpopular (I accumulated for a long time)

Do not confuse these two. In many cases sympathy is a form of "care" for people in need, and there is a possibility of misunderstanding, especially in the most horrible situation, which is not customary. Most therapists, teachers, and unfortunate parents often offer to those who are troubled such "help" or those who are very depressed. But if you think they are willing to get out of their comfort zones, they can learn how to communicate effectively

How is this related to pity? Because sympathy is an emotional reaction that we reserved for helplessness. For example, we express our sympathy to those who suffered serious, serious and irreparable damage. Compassion is a letter or statement: "The Department of Homeland Security as a whole expresses sympathy for the destruction of Haiti and the loss of life after the earthquake last night." Compassion must be tolerant of other people helplessly to a huge tragedy He admitted. Empathy is also different. Empathy is a common emotional reaction to others' problems. When I saw or heard the story that powerless people and animals were being abused, my heart broke. My sympathy for these situations is so introverted that I can not put up with understanding them. Nevertheless, in my case, my intuitive response is to disgust with anger and disgust with the idea that helpless life suffers from great atrocities.

There is a difference in sympathy and sympathy. Compassion involves acknowledging the plight of others, but as sympathy goes further and actually feel the feelings of others, they truly see things from their own perspective. Compassion leads to charity, help top down, compassion leads to common burden, horizontal help. Compassion noticed tears, and compassion made them tears. Both are good, both are necessary, empathicians need more ... it needs to share pain

We know that building the kind of trust we are aiming is more than just an empathy. Compassion depends on common experience. If you are clumsy, you may represent sympathy for those who tend to encounter things. Empathy, on the other hand, is the ability to understand the feelings of others, even if you have never experienced it before. In order to truly sympathize, we must admit that we are all human beings, we all have flaws and life can be difficult. We are willing to accept a little of this dislocation.