suffering

"Now this is the sublime truth of pain, reproductive power is pain, aging suffers, disease is pain, death is pain.Generation with discomfort is a pain.Separation from pleasant things is pain. Blames us for dissatisfaction with so many bloggers that immigrants, traditions, sexual ethics, Christianity, popularization, Judaism, Islam, and whatever else, we basically Ignoring this and damaging our own interests, we will suffer from unnecessary hacking attacks on huge branches before we accept this fact.

When someone comes to you with problems, that person is experiencing some form of pain. Probably it is an extreme pain of frustration, confusion, or fear. Perhaps this is a mild pain caused by the desire to satisfy curiosity. In any case, there is some pain. "To" and "should" are usually judgmental meanings, thus meaning unkind words. As Martial Rosenberg wrote in nonviolent communication, these words are closely related to the feelings of "guilt, responsibility or duty". Therefore, the reason why the theory should use "should" or "should" is sufficient to reconsider.