strength

Will he become stronger or weaker? What is weakness, what is the force in such a strange position?

A few years ago, I jumped to the trend of Strengths Finder and learned something very valuable. My greatest strength was always sympathy. When I am in the sympathizing balcony, I will kill it as a friend, make others feel their feelings and understanding, and set a good emotional boundary without spending much energy. When I was in empathy basement, I neglected my need before others and internalized the feelings of others.

There is power in compassion. Emotional development has power. When their brothers are low, they have the ability to take care of and improve your brothers. Otherwise it is a self-destructive embarrassing act that will continue to prevent the development of the powerful, thoughtful and multifaceted people of our society. We need more images of strong, black and brown people who voluntarily care about each other. We need to send messages to affectionate young boys. Even if they support their friends and their families, their status as men will not be weakened. That enhances it. In order to nurture future generations into a gentle leader, in order to make the world more fair and equal, we strive to accept and promote each other without worrying that their "personal card" will be canceled is needed. Otherwise, you lose the patriarchal structure of other generations, and young people may not be able to fully demonstrate the possibility of empathy.

In any case our body is not the most powerful of mankind - our brain is. Social, linguistic, empathic, and emotional skills are the greatest benefits human beings have. These are called soft skills - but hardness is not power. Hard ones are fragile and broken. Soft things adapt and endure. So Taoism says, softness is power. These benefits are less noticeable among men than women. If there is evidence, it points in the other direction. It is true, but the capacity of men and women may be similar. Male brains are larger, females are more dense - smaller body sizes are better adapted. Neuroscientists say that this sex difference is the most meaningless difference in the brain.