Spinster

At Sylvia's poem "Suvin Star", a girl and her lover walked in the forest on the spring day. When they walk, the lover tries to take a romantic pose to the girl, which makes her feel scared. It is her metaphor that her withdrawal of the girl from the spring body and her embrace to winter are not in love, but want predictability and control. When they entered into the woods, the confusion the girls felt emphasized girls' discomfort when she embraced love-like unpredictable emotions.

Rebellion against Sylvia's female character was confirmed again by "Spinster". A poem about a woman withdrawing from marriage, entering either blacks or whites, or both. This spiritual world was protected by a thorny man, and there was no way to reach the elderly in her house, even through love. In her house, the old man is not alone, but I am very happy to live life without the burden of marriage. In marriage life, emotions fly hard, nothing is black or white. People experienced so many colors and so many emotions

If Silvia lives in today's world, there is doubt as to whether she will choose marriage. I live in my 50s, the women did not choose to get married. Someone is looking forward to her. She explains Spinster 's way of living but today it has a negative meaning and is a positive aspect. Spinster is a better person than a woman who chooses to marry. Spinster is independent, she can do whatever she likes, or even if society looks down on her, she can become the man she wants. Apart from her, she has no one to take care of anyone, she will not have any other way, nobody deserves. No matter how hard a man tries to conquer Spinster, they can not break through to find her. I imagine Sylvia Spencer and I can envy her independence.

Kate Bolik 's spin star, part of the history of literature, a good memoir, she returned to a great "lover" in history and an independent woman, and also provided a touch point as a way forward. I asked her how to act as her personal guidance to help her build a perfect single lady life in her 40s with an activist and writer Charlotte Perkins Gilman, New York guest essayist Maeve Brennan I like to adopt it as a poet Edna St. Vincent Millay. Of course, the idea of ​​recycling "Spinster" has long been a central idea of ​​my friends group. At the beginning of the 20th century, my friend Nicole tattooed her knuckle. My best friend (and a 7-year roommate) LJ and we will live together again when we become "elderly" at the end of our life.