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Whenever there is a problem, I often say "I'm sorry". I say habitually - even if I have not done anything bad or feel no real regret. Ann and I have different expectations for friendship. At that moment, I decided to say something different. I decided to thank rather than sorry. By saying "Thank you", I identify other people and recognize their contribution. I gave up taking responsibility solely to become my own life and to act against ethics. Time and attention are the most precious gifts that anyone can give, I would like to clearly convey these words as parting.

I'm sorry. Even if you do not think you are wrong, you are doing something that makes other people unhappy, so in your opinion you are wrong, so you should take responsibility. "I am sorry I made you angry, but this is not my intention." If you are anxious to bear no responsibility for the dispute, only the partner feels uneasy. There is no responsibility. Without opening a conversation, I say "I am angry because you do not respect me" or "I am so sensitive and paying attention to what I said, I can not move around" not. The same thing "I say these things because you keep coming home for the kids" or "I hope that you will not keep making these mistakes." The only thing you can do is a defensive reaction that is most likely to make productive conversations more difficult and deny accusations.