Background story I lived in the USA for about four years, more specifically in the south. I got a scholarship to get a college degree. When I lived there, I let some parents take care of me during the spring break and Christmas vacation.
After graduation, I returned to my country. Five years later, I would like to visit them because they are very good for me, I want them to visit together.
It was in December, we had a great time except one: they adopted a child named Reactive Attachment Disorder. I wonder what is wrong with this child, for privacy, I do not share more details about him, except for the strange things that happened to him.
My homestay parents live in this country. The house is at the side of the road, but it is slightly isolated. You know, your typical southern house
One evening, I decided to go to bed at the sofa as I did at the university. Everything except my master daddy is ready to go to sleep. I had to adopt sleep and set an alarm clock. Because of child's illness, an alarm system is installed and it works when someone opens a door or window
When everyone goes to bed, I open a laptop and watch a movie. I heard that "What are you watching tonight" with headphones, I entered the movie for 5 minutes.
I was scared, looking around, no one was there. Because he can understand his voice. After calming down, I decided to turn off the laptop and pretend it will not happen. When I saw the front door, he stood outside while opening his eyes looking at me. I am coward, I am shouting like a little girl hiding under my blanket. My homestay parents woke up and asked me what happened. I told them to go see the alarm system (it worked). The child is asleep, but I know what I see, I know this is him.
The next day, I checked in the hotel in the city. For odd reasons, I feel that I am not welcome anymore.
I hope someone can understand this. I am not crazy, I think, this is not some / r / eerie story. Two years later, I can not explain this experience.
Sure, very strange thing happened last night. I am currently a bachelor degree in single living. There is no further meal discussion on the table - in fact, there is not much cooking at home. I mainly go out for meals. The same rules that led me a few years ago will lead my attitude toward food as well. Easy access, healthy and warm scent, and of course soft. Bread is still my favorite (I know the best bakery in town). Sometimes I am bored, or because I am stuck in the kitchen, I cook for myself.
More than two years ago, something happened and my way of thinking changed. Perhaps I was not only mature but maybe something gave me a different way of thinking. I do not really know where it came from, but I know that the small, seemingly insignificant steps I've done later have had a greater impact on my life than 25 years ago. After this transition, I began to make a new daily life, and I began practicing super simple physical and mental exercise. I concentrate on taking an attitude of appreciation. I have tracked and measured the balance between my daily performance and life. I also attended the entrepreneurial spirit course, but I do not know if I will start a business.
The first day of work after 22 years looks like an old movie I have seen. This seems to be another life, I think so. The 22 year old college graduate is currently the father of three children of 44 years old. I am no longer a microcomputer support consultant. Over the years my title has changed a lot and I learned to concentrate on what I need to do in order to accomplish my job without much worry about my title. Sometimes this means writing code, sometimes it means collecting requirements or generating reports and budgets. Sometimes it means to lead a coworker