Solitude

"There is no one isolated from the world." This famous quotation explains the essence of a human being as a society. In fact, humans can not exist isolatedly. They need to be interdependent to survive. This interdependence is necessary in order to meet his own social needs and to bring his material needs from others. All social behaviors such as sex, love, dependence are essential to the survival of all kinds. Dialogue and socialization are the only way to prevent people from being alone.

Loneliness is ideal, loneliness brings peace. Loneliness has become my best friend. I think loneliness is an important factor in cultivating a free space of mind. There are so many people confused. The confusion consumes not only their souls but also their thoughts. I am sitting down and watching because other people are struggling in my life, finding peace is a big problem. soul

The idea was born with loneliness. Genius eats loneliness. People can only love themselves. People make themselves. Loneliness brings peace of mind like "tranquility of a lover's conversation" But most people can not bear on being alone. In our culture there is a deep psychological aversion to loneliness. For some people this horrible hatred was always present in their lives. It is seemingly attractive to be busy with our culture. This is a kind of hysteria - you need to tell others that you are very busy. This boasts of exaggerating the emptiness and gives a delusion of pride and practicality. The world of social media, and the temptation of easy and virtual connection - People quickly fill their heads with emptiness and boredom by checking Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and WhatsApp. Or, friends, gender, alcohol, drugs, and travel - they evacuate to an outside world that is easier to enter than their inner world

In the world of instant messaging, notification, and online interaction, it is difficult to practice solitude. Although physical loneliness is simple (it only locks the door of the house or the room), real loneliness can not be easily realized. You can also receive push notification, seemingly important email and social media updates at the same time, and when you turn off your phone for a while, notify you when you turn on your phone again It will be done. But believe me, it is worth it. In order to enjoy the benefits of loneliness, you need to be alone personally and digitally. Online conversation is more than just socializing conversation in real life. Therefore, when talking to other people on the phone, it is impossible to be in a state of lonely heart.