Society Influences the Way Men and Women Communicate

Many people believe that the way men and women communicate with each other depends on our sex, which is defined as a way to create biology. Other people tend to think that the difference in communication between men and women is due to our sex, but this is a way for society to think that society must tell men in one direction . West and Zimmerman interpret it as "Gender is not what we were born, but what we are doing, not what we have" (qtd.Eckert and McConnell-Ginet Ten).

Gray (1992) pointed out that the reason why men and women communicate differently includes physiological differences, parental differences, parental influences, education and birth rankings, social cultural conditions, media and history. "Men mistakenly believe that women think like men, communicate and react, women mistakenly believe that men feel like women, communicate and react" (Gray 10). Since birth, women have been socialized because of their aggressiveness and arbitrariness, not for boasting or self-improvement. On the other hand, men are staged on the stage, challenged by others, and are forced to brag about what they are good at. Men also act as supporters of demons, but women tend to compromise and seek opinions from others. The purpose of women's conversation is to stress adaptation, equality with others, sharing and support of people talking to her. In this way, women tend to expect the same skills from other women.

Personal roles are sexed through social interaction, media, and language. There are some stereotypes in the way society communicates with men and women. People think well that women talk too much but men talk too much. Men become more speaking people and leaders, women will talk personally with family and friends. For women, society believes that communication is used as a way to express emotions and emotions. For men, society believes that they use communication as a means of expressing power, in particular negotiating status. There are also some social stereotypes about how men and women interact in marriage or relationships between heterosexuals. When men and women communicate with each other in relation, the role of traditional language changes. Men become more passive and women become more active