Sitting Shiva Funeral

The death of a loved one is what everyone encounters in his or her life, as life is a part of nature in life and death is the same. If death especially sudden and unexpected, it left life with grief, shock and confusion. In many cases, people often look to religion to help them deal with losses. Each religion has its own funeral tradition, supporting people who mourn the dead. In Judaism, the tradition of funeral and sorrow is embodied in what the mourners and consolators must do and what they do not.

The funeral is held at home, but today is unusual. The funeral was hosted by the pastor of a local temple. But there are also funeral directors and their assistants to ensure that people are in the right place and that service is done smoothly. Neighbors also help by gathering donations. About six months ago, I was asked to help the neighbor's funeral. It is my first time. I sat on the reception, thanked those who came, accepted their donation, reply to custom gift appreciation gifts, and transferred that money to bookkeeping. Member, other neighbors. In this way, we helped various tasks around the funeral

On Sunday evening, Nancy and Jim's youngest girl Emily lived in Marblehead with her husband and two children They opened a funeral dinner at their house and held Shiva before the funeral. It was completed in 7 days. . She cooked and we enjoyed together while eating and drinking together and talking about being raised with my mother. Cousins ​​who have not met within a few years have time to catch up, four grandchildren playing in the living room and blowing off the steam.

After the funeral, the Shiva candle was traditionally lit. This special memorial candle symbolizes the soul of a person who died in Shiva seven days. In traditional Jewish houses, mourners do not use cosmetics, do not shave or cut hair. They are not wearing leather, it was considered luxurious in ancient times, not sexual relations. To prevent vanities, the mirror is removed, turned to a wall, or covered with a white sheet. People sitting in Shiva sit on a low stool or floor instead of a chair as a sad acting