Should Parenting Be a Right or a Privilege in "Gone Baby Gone"

"Gone Baby Gone" is a movie that bothers us after seeing it. It will allow people to constantly change their views. In particular, people will begin thinking about whether the actor's decision is right or wrong. In this movie, the feelings of the character are in conflict. We can see the contradiction in their mind. Patrick should make Amanda return to his mother. Amanda should quit her mother and stay with Jack. Parenting should be a matter of mind, and we provide children with warm and loving houses.

When the Gone Baby Gone was released, the biggest problem surrounding it was "Can Ben Ben Affleck directly make movies?" After he won his 2012 Argo Best Film Award, the problem seems to be solved, but Gone Baby Gone is still Affleck. The most exciting and rich movie. The screenwriting he co-authored with Aaron Stockard was strictly structured, almost unseenly developed, and patiently developing the most amazing development. The direction of Affleck is equally strong, his frame constantly draws out Boston's working class details and emphasizes letter notes in an elegant way. If it is not due to the confidence of Affleck, the complex end of the Gone Baby Gone will have little persistent impact.

One day, when baby S. was nearly three months old, S. When she went to the toilet, she put her on the middle pillow of the mattress. She walked for about a minute. When she came back, baby S. was lying on the floor. S. and her mother took her child to the hospital. It turned out that there was nothing wrong with it, but like many new parents in that situation, S. I'm scared. The idea of ​​losing baby S. made her sick. Since then, when her child cried, she no longer buried himself under the pillow. She did not let Baby S leave her sight

No! The baby cried because they needed something. This is one of their only way of communicating. Some parents are worried about taking care of their babies when they cry, destroying their babies and causing attachment problems. Some parents are also worried that their children are manipulating them. This is impossible. A small baby can not control you! Conversely, choosing a child while the child is crying tells them that you are there for the child, they can trust that you will take care of the child . Studies have shown that children who love and worry about crying or suffering are more likely to be independent children and young people. This is due to their early development of their basic needs for trust and comfort. These needs are a strong and independent foundation. So do not make your baby cry! You just tell him / her that you will not be there when you need it the most.