To say that I am sorry is not easy for most of us. Yes, English automatically counterattacks, attacks others and even objects, and apologizes; same auto response to someone who laughs and apologizes to us. There is also a standard official apology, apologize for any sin that someone is a cheat for six months and I may give. Please consider the image of tooth extraction. No, I mean that kind of apology. Instead of trying to forgive or blame someone for liability, I acknowledge simply and humbly that the mistake has been completed and that I am responsible for it. Benedict knows even monasteries that may be difficult. In the monastery, we live in the community, we have never chosen for ourselves Because we have different backgrounds and behaviors and inevitably experienced deeply by someone else or other people, This is particularly difficult. Period test where we have little or no knowledge
Benedict is realistic about the difficulty of community life. On RB 44 I read today, he used to deal with extreme situations. Obviously, this chapter does not apply to any literal equality, although it does not apply to any person lying outside the community because it made a serious mistake (in this case meaning expelling the church) to the community, It is worth thinking about how to welcome people who return harmful to return to society. Benedict does not mind punishment, but focuses on rectifying mistakes. This is not the intention of our apology, is it often impossible to achieve it?
There are times when we tend to think about what we can do and what we can not get what we want. This is time to supplement God and other people. Sorry but not easy, but sometimes it is because we are free, we can make it angry, nothing is more tolerable than forgiveness - both sides. Is sorry for someone today?
I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I often say I'm sorry to avoid conflicts. In most cases, there is really no contradiction, so I'm sorry but that makes me feel incompetent and may affect the impression people have given me. With this in mind, I am sorry but I will use the statement. When I mistakenly sent a wrong project asset to someone within a strict time limit, I took responsibility and arranged the assets. Then I told the person I sent the wrong project asset, and to make up for it, I organized everything to make her easier. I am sorry, but I said that I sent a new file because I sent the wrong file with the previous e-mail. It's not too difficult.
Whenever there is a problem, I often say "I'm sorry". I say habitually - even if I have not done anything bad or feel no real regret. Ann and I have different expectations for friendship. At that moment, I decided to say something different. I decided to thank rather than sorry. By saying "Thank you", I identify other people and recognize their contribution. I gave up taking responsibility solely to become my own life and to act against ethics. Time and attention are the most precious gifts that anyone can give, I would like to clearly convey these words as parting.
Even if most people say "I am sorry", even if I say "I am sorry", I hope that the word "I'm sorry" can be made. Please avoid the consequences of their behavior, avoid unpleasant conversations, and use it as a magic free card to allow unacceptable behavior. The truth is that most people are sorry about what they are doing and how they deal with you. They are not irritated and do not regret it. When they do they know exactly what they are doing, and there is no accident or intention. In fact, it is done consciously and consciously