Resolving Family Conflict

Families provide people the atmosphere of life, growth, and development. Parents' culture has been established by parents and has penetrated the child's growth process. A healthy family is a family who works together to protect a chain of strong ethics, faithful to each other, to cooperate, and to avoid conflict. Since open minds are more likely to avoid conflicts than closed ideas, an open environment between families is ideal. If the conflict becomes the best family, it may increase hostility and create distance between families, but if the family resolves the conflict it can strengthen and enforce it.

Family conflicts are unavoidable, so there should be a way to solve or avoid conflicts to avoid the adverse effects of conflict. One way to solve family conflicts is perseverance and slow quarrel. Holding the tongue for a few seconds is an important step to resolving the contradiction. Spouses can calm down and come up with better ways to deal with situations and conflicts in development. With perseverance, you can provide a better thinking solution to resolve the conflict, then immediately fight for each other. In addition, families can avoid conflict by working hard not to criticize each other, but to solve the problem. Spread the space for concession by blaming the game so that family can cooperate for problem solving

A unique way for families to make decisions and resolve disputes. Every family member must make a decision and have a way to resolve the dispute. In most households, every member has a specific area and needs to have some degree of power and influence. As Aponte (1976) points out, "Families must have sufficient power to constantly protect their personal interests against their families while maintaining the happiness of other members and families. It mainly comes from an adult family, but there is a big difference between how to distribute and use electricity in the household.