Reconnecting With Your Teen

When you lose an intimate relationship with a teenager, you may feel that your parents have lost their best friends. Another similarity is that you feel like you have a roommate, not warmth and intimate friendship you share in your child's life. Rather than keeping the communication line closed, there is a way to reconnect with young people and build a closer relationship through understanding between the two. * Communication is of course the most important way to reconnect with young people.

If you want to reconnect after the split time was an important part of your life, your teen will share this expectation. Ask your teens for caution in a harmless manner in a rough way and do not be interested in individuals. Once you become familiar with the process of reconnecting after separation, it is obvious. When you or your child leaves say goodbye. When you come back, Hello. When you meet your child for the first time in the morning, hug Hug, if possible, please pay special attention to him. This seems obvious, but many families do not. Studies have shown that men hugging their wives in the morning live longer, earn more and become happy. Currently there is no data on how to apply for parents and children, but I can bet on my teenage and husband to embrace my husband's goodbye. (Of course, if they have friends, I may be exceptional, but my friends often embrace!

If you notice that your child does not cooperate, this may indicate a crack that requires repair in your relationship. If so, I strongly urge you to contact your child to find a way to reconnect and build with some very necessary mutual trust. Because rebuilding takes time, startup is very slow. The curse of contempt and habitual extremism is not the cause of the problem ... they are the symptoms of something bigger. Perhaps anger, confusion, identity struggle is at the center, so be careful about your communication attempt. When an adult speaks, it seems to be an old peanut cartoon. Do you remember? Your child heard a sound coming out of your mouth, but I could not hear what you said. Local religious leaders who consult family counselors and healthy parenting strategies can probably build a good relationship with the young people and it will help fill the gap between you and the two.